? References

If everyone needs two references how do you get started?

Your assumption is flawed, my advice is read the boards. If only there were a way to "SEARCH"

Try "newbie" or "newbie friendly" as criteria.

See a newbie friendly provider.

You may have to see a lady you don't exactly prefer to get your foot in the door. Make sure she has a p411 page. Then see another lady.

I must agree. There are plenty newbie providers. Be prepared to go through a screening process, and when initially contacting them, give a bit of information about yourself.

It also helps to read their FAQ section, every legitimate "Newbie Friendly" provider will likely have a FAQ page on her website. If no FAQ is listed, check under "Etiquette"

Choose your newbie friendly provider wisely. More than likely the first two providers you see will have the bulk of your screening info....such as your full name and work info (dependin on how they screen)......be patient they may wanna talk and feel you out. Some go on gut, and info. Some play by ear. Youu only have to do this with one good reference......or possibly two.

Always keep a local reference if you travel. It makes things easier when u travel to other cities. Picks refs who have reviews, are known for good services, and who are generally little drama.

After you get two refs...possibly three sign up for p411 and ask them for oks. If cost and time is an issue.....book ladies who do half hours......and get those oks.