Im just trying to get a little help/advice

You were working with the agency as Kittie and also doing the indy thing as Nathalia?

Have you already left the agency? If so then continue as Nathalia. If not and you want to leave 1.) Tell them. 2.) Leave. Don't just leave without telling them. You don't wan't want to burn that bridge.

If you have reviews as Nathalia.. what is the problem? I don't see anything wrong with not wanting to be affiliated with an agency. What is the conflict here or am I missing something.

Think she's wanting to use Natalia Springs as her name now but the reviews are on another site. It's really no big deal if the reviews are legit because ladies do change there name for one reason or another. Just have to be ready to explain to client why the name change if he wants a review of you.

best to ya babe!!!

My issue is that I only have one review under Natalia but I need more for Eccie to be able to verifie me.

Hi everybody,

My name is Natalia Springs. I have been a provider for a while now but I have a few issues that Im trying to figure out. The last time that I was working here in San Antonio I work for a company call REAL SOUTHERN COMFORT and went by the name Kittie. I have some reviews on this website from when I worked with them but now I am 100% independent and trying to get started and make a name for MYSELF. So basically I trying to get any and all advice that I can so that I can become the best provider that I can be.
Thanks for all the help.

NATALIA SPRINGS

PS.
I also have other reviews on other site under NataliaSprings. Please feel free to google me at anytime.

Originally Posted by NataliaSprings

The New-Era Escort: 10 Paradigms to Success

My husband and I started escorting for a secondary income in late 2008.

More about how we met and got started as escorts can be read on our Blog Staff Edit

Since our start, we have learned many things. The world's oldest profession has seen some radical changes, thanks to technology, making this profession easier (and harder) for everyone involved.

From the ease of creating fake ads to falsifying reviews, it's become far too easy for low-life crime rings to take advantage of well intentioned gentlemen and hard-working ladies alike.

We feel the time has come to suggest a new paradigm for the escort who wants to thrive during these more modern, technologically advanced, yet dangerous times.

1) Security Must be a Priority

You must value your safety and freedom above the incremental income of seeing another client who cannot comply to your screening process. The added costs of making a screening mistake are never worth the sum total of the lost incremental income from one client. Further, now more than ever, ladies must leverage technology and other systems to protect their true identities, and to take advantage of anonymity whenever and wherever possible.

2) You are Special & Unique

You and all your many qualities combine to make you truly unique. Every man understands this when asked what turns him on or what attracts him most, some are leg guys, others are boob men, and others prefer blondes. But it doesn't stop there, most have a combination of attributes that draw them more-so than others. Do not try to be all things to all men, if you try, you will at best be mediocre to most. Instead, look for those who resonate with the qualities that make you unique. These men will feed your self confidence, and in turn fuel the passions that make you a better you.

3) There is NO Competition - Just Variety

In addition to your being a unique and special creature, do not fall into the trap of evaluating other providers as your "competition". While some men will argue vehemently in opposition to reduce what makes you special as an abundant commodity. It's ok. Just remember, most men have never been able to master their libido as they thrive on variety.

You do not "own" your clients, and never believe a client that says he only sees you - instead, see your fellow provider as sisters and "co-workers", thrive to build them up, create value for the community and karma will take care of the rest.

4) There is an Abundance of Ready, Willing Potential Clients

Be careful not to get sucked into a scarcity mentality. Scarcity relies on fear, lack and desperation. It feeds aggressive and often foolish competitive tactics that create more danger, more fear and in the end, never pay off with the success that was coveted.

The truth is: There is an abundance of potential business just waiting for you. In our Blog*, we reveal the sources along with the math & statistics that demonstrate this simple fact:

There are fewer than 900 providers here in Phoenix just waiting to entertain 79,000+ employed, generous, adult gentlemen creating a minimum annual income of over $38,000.

The good news is that this is an estimated "bare-minimum". If you are not feeling success far and above this minimum then it might be time for you to consider some radical alternatives. We will cover some of these ideas in our boot-camp series and in our online community.

5) Listen to Your Clients - But Discern What They are REALLY Saying

Unless you have experience in conducting market research and have assembled balanced, representative focus groups, designed surveys and have established empirical controls to yield accurate results, you must always take your client's feedback with a massive grain of salt - no matter how sincere and how honest it appears on the surface.

Example: Some men will contact you, feed your ego a little, and develop some chemistry with you. He may then tell you he saw someone else who offers X or whose rates were only Y, and then ask if you would you match them. Bottom line, this man called you FIRST, he WANTS YOU! Not the other girl (which might not even exist). Sure, if you stick to your guns, you might miss out, but if you use these and other suggestions, you can be assured someone else will see you and pay your rates.

6) Eliminate Desperation and Addiction

Permitting these 2 conditions any foothold in your life will severely compromise your ability to do any of the items on this page effectively. Please seek out help from qualified professionals, and strive to live beneath your financial means. To enjoy success means to stop playing the role of a victim and taking charge and control over your life NOW. It's never too late to take your life back, and go somewhere positive with it.

7) You are the Most Valuable Asset in Your Business

As with any asset, you must do everything to protect it, care for and nurture it. Whether you adopt a new fitness regimen, or change your diet. Remember you need to feed all the facets of yourself, your intellect, your spirit, your soul. Strive to learn something new or rediscover a hidden talent. Keep improving yourself as doing so improves the "asset" of you.

8) Run Your Business as a Business - Not a Job

Even if you escort part-time, you must realize that you are now a business owner and to enjoy maximum success, you'll need to operate as a business. You should understand your costs, your investments, your time and your revenues. When you do, you'll see it gets easier to make decisions about your business that result in more success within your business.

9) Surround Yourself With Other Successful People

Many top success coaches & speakers suggest that your income will be the average of the income of the top 5 people you spend most of your time with. While we don't necessarily believe this to be 100% true, we do know that when you surround yourself with other successful people you instinctively elevate your "game". Surrounding yourself with other successful people creates an environment where you are more apt to find answers and solutions that could positively impact your success as a business owner.

10) Help Others

Steven Covey has implied that the best way to actually learn something is to teach it. Call it Karma, positive energy or just putting your learning to practice. We know this business can be unusually isolated and lonely - thus we cannot stress how important this principal is, and how powerful it is to influence your success, your happiness and your future as an independent woman.

We have applied these principals to our business since our beginning back in 2008.

In doing so, we've seen record earnings regularly and consistently nearly every month, and every year. We've enjoyed many incredible adventures, and have made some pretty awesome friendships along the way. We have always made a conscious effort to be givers, teachers and helpers to anyone who needs it.

Moving forward we plan to put more and more effort into creating tools, and opportunities to share with those who choose this profession and are looking to enrich themselves in the process.

xxoo

Staff Edit

Good info, Monica. Thank you for posting it. I have edited to remove contact reference to A&C. If they would like to join us and advertise here we would be happy to have them; but I can't have you doing it for them.