Man-Delay

Cpalmson's Avatar
Okay, I have issues with cumming too soon. For awhile, I seemed to have it under control but lately it has become a problem. I mean I'm ready to explode at the first touch with a gal, so some of the "remedies" (i.e. squeeze technique) for my problem might not be possible). Guys have any of you used Man-Delay (or similar) products? If so, what were the results? Ladies, have you ever been with clients that have the same issue as me, or have had clients who use Man-Delay (or similar) products. FYI, Man-Delay is essentially Ora-Gel applied to the head and/or shaft of the penis.
Wish I had your problem...I'm the opposite. Sometimes it's very hard for me to finish.
Eccie Addict's Avatar
Are you a one and done guy OP?
Alot of men have your problem. i dont know a cure. i just wanted you to know u r not alone.
the guys are very good at getting me off other methods. i just hope they had as much fun as i did.
I have this same problem. I have found that milking the lizard the day before your planned fistivities will help this issue.

Big AL
It's best to just go ahead and let the first one out quickly love...There's always round two...or three..or more
It's best to just go ahead and let the first one out quickly love...There's always round two...or three..or more Originally Posted by Valerie
I might add, that there are desensitization techniques that ladies can use to help you with it. It takes practice, and use of the techniques.
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The Stop/start technique is much better than the squeeze technique. It just takes teaming up with the provider in an effective manner. You need to learn to control the sensations rather than use products to decrease the pleasure or the sensations. If you are MSOG, just let it go as Valerie suggests but I would still learn mental controls.
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Wish I had your problem...I'm the opposite. Sometimes it's very hard for me to finish. Originally Posted by IDMT
Same here. Sometimes.

I've learned to warn the ladies up front and let them know it has nothing to do with them, so that way they don't feel bad if it happens. I'd say it happens about 1 in 4 times.

And oddly, the 3 out of 4 times that I do finish the ladies seem to take it as a compliment on their skills/looks.
I agree with whitechoocolate. For me the 1st pop always is the quickest but I've learned that as I've been with the partner before I get more comfortable and can last longer on the 1st one. I'm MSOG so getting that 1st one out of the way usually calms me down so I can really enjoy the rest of them. By the time i'm down to my 3rd or 4th one I almost feel like a porn star where I can pop on command.
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Okay, I have issues with cumming too soon. For awhile, I seemed to have it under control but lately it has become a problem. I mean I'm ready to explode at the first touch with a gal, so some of the "remedies" (i.e. squeeze technique) for my problem might not be possible). Guys have any of you used Man-Delay (or similar) products? If so, what were the results? Ladies, have you ever been with clients that have the same issue as me, or have had clients who use Man-Delay (or similar) products. FYI, Man-Delay is essentially Ora-Gel applied to the head and/or shaft of the penis. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I would gladly trade places with you any day. I couldn't cum if they were paying me. I just can't get enough friction with a lubed up condom to get off. I need the heat and feel of bare skin.
It's best to just go ahead and let the first one out quickly love...There's always round two...or three..or more Originally Posted by Valerie
Listen to the lady, she knows!!
I would gladly trade places with you any day. I couldn't cum if they were paying me. I just can't get enough friction with a lubed up condom to get off. I need the heat and feel of bare skin. Originally Posted by JohnMacnab
Yup. Unfortunately though, it's just not worth the risk for either party involved.
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Damn Rabbitt!! Your my new porn star hero being able to cum on demand after the 3rd or 4th pop!!