Ring or no ring

This is an honest question for the girls and guys.

Guys, do you remove your wedding ring before entering an apt?

Guys, would you see a lady wearing a nice big engagement wedding Ring?

Ladies, do you wear your ring in sessions?

I only ask because I have seen a very feminist provider several times and she always talks how much she loves being single and blah blah... I saw her yesterday and she had a huge rock on her finger. When I asked her about it she snuck her hand behind her back switched the ring to a different finger then remarked "oh this is just costume jewellery as she placed it away carefully. I know all providers have their personal business but it was off putting to me that she would be embarrassed or try to hide it... not that it's my business.... but for the ladies does boyfriend husband equate to less business?
FLReWrite's Avatar
I just don't take ANYTHING into an appointment that I'm not planning to give away.
Can only speak for myself, but seeing a ring on a provider during a session wouldn't bother me much, at least with regard to meaningfulness.
TheEccie214's Avatar
I wondered about that when I started too and decided I didn't care if the providers knew I was married. Talked to a few girls about it and all said they didn't care and one said they preferred married men as there was less of a chance of the guy wanting more than a business transaction because he had his own life.
ElBombero's Avatar
I just don't take ANYTHING into an appointment that I'm not planning to give away. Originally Posted by FLReWrite
Exactly. No watch, cell phone, pistol, wallet, etc. just a few folded pieces of green paper.
tornado82's Avatar
You should definitely take your phone and pistol if you're seeing a Backpage girl
ElBombero's Avatar
You should definitely take your phone and pistol if you're seeing a Backpage girl Originally Posted by tornado82
Eh... I'm not so sure. It depends on how much research was done. A pistol in you pants, laying in the corner won't help much. And, shooting someone in a hotel wouldn't be good for the home life. I'd rather give them the few bills in my pocket and go home.
I don't take my ring off and I don't care about rings on my clients.
AshleyKay of Dallas's Avatar
Is it sad that I no longer notice when a man is wearing a ring ? Lol
ElBombero's Avatar
It's not like you can hide the pale band around the finger, so it's not about whether anyone cares. I'd just prefer not have anything of value on me when meeting someone, at least for the first time.
  • jwood
  • 09-20-2017, 07:30 PM
I quit wearing my ring a week after I said I do. Don’t like to wear rings. Don’t think ladies care. Saw a married woman for years. Turned me on when she would stretch her arms and hands out when she was fdau and I could see that big rock on her finger.
Ring, no ring. It doesn't matter. If it did, would he be visiting me?
micktoz's Avatar
I know the SO's of two ladies I see in Phoenix. I thank them for sharing their wonderful spouses with me.
When I was married and I was all in the marriages (2), I wore a ring and was monogamous. When I was not wanting to stay in the marriage, the ring came off and never went back on. I played for about 10 months before ending the last marriage and didn't wear the ring at all. The ring was a symbol to me of my dedication to the relationship.
I'm not judging anyone else. Just sharing my experiences.
rexdutchman's Avatar
no ring as sign of respect to providers , just me