Flowers? They are really ?That good?

ICU 812's Avatar
Outside of the Hobby Context now . . .in the Real World interactions between men and Women ;

Why are flowers such a big deal? Most men don't get it at all but will buy flowers because the women in their lives respond positively to receiving flowers.

We don't get it because they are EXPENSIVE and they die. To get a dozen roses delivered from a florist is well over $100. That is a good start on dinner for two or a significant part of many other dating related expenses (cover charge and drinks, a ticket to something etc).

So, Ladies . . .WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL ABOUT FLOWERS?
Alyssa XOXO's Avatar
There are definitely better ways to woo a woman. In my P411 profile where it asks about my favorite flower, I wrote: "They Die. Save Your Money".

I do enjoy smelling them though when I am outside or in my friends garden.
winn dixie's Avatar
^^^^^^^^^Practical and common sensed lady ^^^^^^^^^^^
pfunkdenver's Avatar
I've never upset a woman by getting her flowers. I always see a smile, and happiness upon delivery. Jewelry works, too! I have chosen many other gifts (cash especially) that disappointed, and made me look bad.

The "why" doesn't matter. They have worked well as a gift, so I'll continue to choose them.
A trick that has worked for me, is if you know where she works, send them to her office.

Then she has to answer many questions from her jealous coworkers.
ICU 812's Avatar
pfunkdenver and Fizley:


You have each re-enforced my own direct experience. Outside the Hobby world, flowers are an inexplicable (to men) plus to a social interaction between a man and a woman.

Alyssa and Windixi:

You both have re-inforced my thoughts on flowers in the Hobby context. As a Hobbyest, I would rathe rput the extra hundred or so towards extending the session.

I understand why this is so in the provider/Hobbyist interaction.

I do not understand why it works so well in the Real World . . .but it does and so i bring flowers.
Alyssa XOXO's Avatar
I'm not bringing anything that I received from the hobby into my home. I keep my Hobby Life and Real World Completely Separate. Hell, I don't even bring my hobby bag into the house

It's a kind gesture BUT, when I walk out of that incall; Alyssa stays there too. I do not want flowers in my home from the hobby.

If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

Have a great day and Happy Hobbying!
I do not understand why it works so well in the Real World . . .but it does and so i bring flowers. Originally Posted by ICU 812
I definitely don't understand flowers either, but it always seems to work. It works so well I have gone to speed dating events and passed out a single Rose to every one that spent time with me. I would always carry extras I would walk around after the event and say "second rose for your your number.".

One time after a speed dating event I offered one women a 2nd Rose and she offered to purchase me a drink at the bar. One drink at the bar and she invited me back to her place.
Jadec5717's Avatar
Never been big on flowers but Edible arrangements have always been my favorite!!!
ICU 812's Avatar
Alyssa: I am right with you on keeping things separate.


Roses. . .yeah.

Retired now, but I worked in a hospital setting for years. I was one of very few men in our department. Every Valentine's Day I would, on the way in to work, buy a bunch of inexpensive roses from a street vender. As my female co-workers came in, I'd give each one a single rose and a :Happy Valentine's Day!".

When I retired, that was one thing they missed most about me leaving.
ICU 812's Avatar
And the flowers always die!

And the good will from giving flowers only lasts till the next time you forget to take out the trash right after dinner!
I saw that words. Why are flowers such a big deal? Most men don't get it at all but will buy flowers because the women in their lives respond positively to receiving flowers. It's a really big deal. Women like flowers and if wanna show your feelings order Online Rose's Delivery here https://nectarflowersottawa.ca/collections/roses and make your woman happy and loved one. Be a little bit more romantic than pragmatic.
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  • BLM69
  • 08-10-2021, 02:52 PM
Here we go again with tricks thinking the whores in here are looking for a relationship, they want your $, the most you're willing to give up. Flowers do work with regular women, it makes them feel special, whores selling P are jaded and scared for life, They lost hope in Men long ago, probably because of their past relationships
Here we go again with tricks thinking the whores in here are looking for a relationship, they want your $, the most you're willing to give up. Flowers do work with regular women, it makes them feel special, whores selling P are jaded and scared for life, They lost hope in Men long ago, probably because of their past relationships Originally Posted by BLM69
BLM you are truly the real world Dr Phil of Hooker World!