So how long?

Yes, I'm new. This may be long established but I can't find the keyword to dig up the answer. To both ladies and gents: Planning in advance is hard for me so I will most likely be a same day date kind of guy. I don't want to be disrespectful of anyone's time, but will no doubt have a limited time to book a date and would hate to miss the opportunity. So. How long does one wait to hear back from a provider before calling another?

30 seconds

If one girl doesn't answer call another... if the first one calls back tell her you found someone else. Just don't BOOK with multiple providers as that is rude.

30 seconds Originally Posted by BobsAlias

I admire your patience and restraint.

30 seconds Originally Posted by BobsAlias

I admire your patience and restraint. Originally Posted by chriscraft

LMAO! Y'all crazy

With me I book fast so I would try to set something up with whoever at least the morning of... But if I've had a cancelation and someone calls I will take them after I screen them.
Good luck.

You also might want to keep keep an eye on "short term availability" in ISO

Just know that many ladies won't be able to screen short notice. If there is someone that you want to see, but can't book in advance, consider contacting the provider to get pre-screened to be prepared for that last-minute appointment.

Just know that many ladies won't be able to screen short notice. If there is someone that you want to see, but can't book in advance, consider contacting the provider to get pre-screened to be prepared for that last-minute appointment. Originally Posted by KCQuestor

Great advice babe...

Solid, KCQ. +1
If she is available last minute, it would be more likely she takes a regular. Or at least a pre-screened applicant.

LMAO! Y'all crazy Originally Posted by Gemma34

Gemma, I have the Gold, Silver and Bronze in crazy. Crazy is as Crazy does.

As a short notice man, I would definitely recommend that you pre-screen with some ladies that you admire via PM or email, and let them know that you aren't always certain of your availability. Ask them what's the best time of day to get a short notice appointment.

Depending on a lady's incall situation, she may need to get a room first, or if she has a permanent incall, there's probably a period of time of the day that she's there waiting for calls. Depending on your timing, having a roster of ladies available at different times would probably increase your chances of a positive meeting.

You'll get one of two reactions:
a) either they'll think you're a timewaster, since you're not booking immediately, or
b) they'll appreciate the fact that you screened with them early since you expect to meet them quickly with little to no time to screen them before your meeting.

B would be my choice as a provider. I'd be more willing to meet a man who showed a little concern for my safety than a new guy trying to rush me into an encounter.

So. How long does one wait to hear back from a provider before calling another? Originally Posted by nudiej

however long you want to wait. if that's 1 hr, 3, hrs, 6 hrs - you set your timeframe. but do let them know in your request.

you could also send requests to a couple of women and book with the one that best meets your criteria. BUT DONT LET THEM KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHER!!

If one girl doesn't answer call another... if the first one calls back tell her you found someone else. Just don't BOOK with multiple providers as that is rude. Originally Posted by DestinyInKC

i have NEVER found it to my benefit to let provider A know that i have booked an appt w/ another provider!!! NEVER!!!!!
you can always say something came up or whatever.
but thank them for their time and consideration.

and agreed - dont double book!!! unless you want to consult with them both at the same time!!

Just know that many ladies won't be able to screen short notice. If there is someone that you want to see, but can't book in advance, consider contacting the provider to get pre-screened to be prepared for that last-minute appointment. Originally Posted by KCQuestor

most excellent advice!!!

I understand the dilemma. I'm a same day sorta guy too. Prescreening is very helpful. I'm prescreened with a couple of ladies I have yet to see. Hopefully they'll be available when I get free.