Traveling ladies that visit KC..

I know you like visiting KC and we love having you here , other providers and I have given many of you ladies references for the KC men to see you, but why is it when you leave and move on to your next destination and that same client wants an apt with a different provider you won't answer your pm, emails, text messages,nor phones calls.. Safety First ...and eventually we are gonna stop giving you references ... I had to turn down a few apts due to you not retuning any kind of communication period.
And some of my new friends that wanted to see me and had to use you as a reference probably won't see you again either. So your losing as well.
These gentleman are in this hobby for variety nor to remain with one provider if they wanted that the wouldn't leave home.
Have a great night.

Yea, you bitches! Jk, jk, jk.... Good question Lindsay.

Yea, you bitches! Jk, jk, jk.... Good question Lindsay. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Lmao ... seriously tho. .

I've pretty much quit using other providers as references. There are too many other ways to screen clients. I refuse to stress myself out by dealing with jealous and/or selfish providers. And that's exactly what they are.

Would calling them out in their current tour city be any more helpful? I feel like back scratching is a necessity in the hobby, but we can't always tell how chaotic or difficult things are on the other side.

Would calling them out in their current tour city be any more helpful? I feel like back scratching is a necessity in the hobby, but we can't always tell how chaotic or difficult things are on the other side. Originally Posted by algrace

I wasnt to sure as to where this needed to be posted because it's happening to the kc gents and kc providers. If we scratch your back you should in return scratch ours. ..

I've pretty much quit using other providers as references. There are too many other ways to screen clients. I refuse to stress myself out by dealing with jealous and/or selfish providers. And that's exactly what they are. Originally Posted by Gemma34

And if they're jealous, the hobbyists also receive the backlash.

And if they're jealous, the hobbyists also receive the backlash. Originally Posted by RTM

Indeed you guys do as well, if they only understood how much this will affect their business when returning. Again if you gents wanted to be with the same person you wouldn't leave home so just share darn it....

I guess I'm just different. The less people involved with my discrete business, the better. By me contacting a provider as a reference and waiting and waiting, no good comes out of it. I'm frustrated as well as is the client, I now have to attempt to contact other providers that he's provided me with, the whole while he's patiently waiting on an answer, and this all comes back on me. So, it's not that I won't scratch a back, it's that I refuse to have my business and good name smeared by others bad business tactics. So, as I said, the less involved with my business, the better for me and my potential clients.

I guess I'm just different. The less people involved with my discrete business, the better. By me contacting a provider as a reference and waiting and waiting, no good comes out of it. I'm frustrated as well as is the client, I now have to attempt to contact other providers that he's provided me with, the whole while he's patiently waiting on an answer, and this all comes back on me. So, it's not that I won't scratch a back, it's that I refuse to have my business and good name smeared by others bad business tactics. So, as I said, the less involved with my business, the better for me and my potential clients. Originally Posted by Gemma34

I try to use other methods of verification, but there's hobbyist who won't give out more info than they already have with other providers cause they gave it out once already.. And I understand that they don't want to do that cause it would be one more person with their info that they have already given out once. I understand where your coming from Gemma ....

You are definitely correct, most guys aren't willing to give out their personal info to just too many providers. But, if they want to see me they will. Or else have references that they know are business oriented. I personally never have too many issues but I see a lot of my regulars and also the traveling guys who have have their references in order before even contacting me. If by reading her profile it looks like a lady that is going to give me grief, then on to the next one!! I can spot a bitter bitch a state away!

I agree wIth Gemma. Some providers rely too much on references. Nothing pisses me off more than to be turned down at home & then to be turned down by a girl who makes a living at making brown-chicken-brown-cow for $.

regardless of your screening techniques,

if i go visit provider A, give her name & contact info to provider B, and then provider A doesnt respond to provider B after being asked for a vouch on me, i for sure would like to know about it.

i'd personally would let the other guys [prolly in the lounge, maybe co-ed] know that provider A sounds like all take and no give. she'd be off my go-visit-her-again list lickety-split.

Lindsay, Gemma I would be happy to scratch lick poke or prod what ever it is you need done to your back front side top and bottom sides

regardless of your screening techniques,

if i go visit provider A, give her name & contact info to provider B, and then provider A doesnt respond to provider B after being asked for a vouch on me, i for sure would like to know about it.

i'd personally would let the other guys [prolly in the lounge, maybe co-ed] know that provider A sounds like all take and no give. she'd be off my go-visit-her-again list lickety-split. Originally Posted by pmdelites

Ya if I would have implied on who it was I would have gotten in trouble for it. .ijs