Private messages

Why do the guys have the ability to write in the rooms in private and us ladies don't???
Its pretty screwed up when in a co-ed room they start writing and us ladies can't see it.
I think that we should be allowed to do it also.

I remember growing up in Lincoln and going on a boy scout field trip to the Armor Meat plant out on West O street. Right the other side of the O street viaduct. It had a livestock area and workers there helped cows onto their eternal reward. Before that fateful afternoon, I had always had a touchy - feely attitude towards meat. It simply appeared and was eaten. Unfortunately that day I learned the impact of a close range 22 bullet shot into a cow's skull after it had been for the most part electrocuted. I realized there was a very ugly underbelly to great T-bones and prime rib, even to hamburgers.

That is why I urge Sabra, my dear friend, to reconsider wanting to know what goes on in the meat plant, right behind the plastic curtains where you hear the cows making somewhat unusual sounds. There might not be enough steak sauce available to make our companionship palatable afterwards. lol

Actually you would very disappointed in what we talk about. Just last night we had a raging debate about the breakdown of Keppler's math when applied to the nano-verse. Not to mention whether Holly made the best 4-barrels. lol

I don't want to know what you say in the mens room or ROS, but in the co-ed room (imo) it should not be allowed. You have spots to talk private and it is just rude to do it in the open rooms. Like I said you guys don't want to be called out on your lies!

If you do not know what we say, how can you can them lies?

Must be our you would have nothing to hide!

I think what you are talking about it's not just ladies that can't see it. I am unable to see it too. Premium Access are the only ones to see it. Yah it pisses me off too. (it is just rude) I agree.

I think what you are talking about it's not just ladies that can't see it. I am unable to see it too. Premium Access are the only ones to see it. Yah it pisses me off too. (it is just rude) I agree. Originally Posted by jaja133

JaJa,
You can get premium access, we can't. It is your choice not to get it, not ours.
I also think that it is good that they can have privacy in certain areas, Just not in the public rooms.
In the public rooms everything that is said should be public, if you don't want it to be public take it to the private areas.

Yeah, I agree that leaving the women out in the cold is a somewhat rude thing to do

I could care less....if it purtains to me and no one has the balls to say it to me, it must not matter that much to them.

Guys make some of their comments private because they want to and I highly doubt they're always telling lies when they do so. If we're going to use that mentality, then what us ladies say in the powder room or infoshare must be lies too huh?


Also.....its not rude. You want to see what's being written.....write of a review of a lady you saw or pay for it like some others do. Is your safety and ability to do some decent research not worth it?

Nash.....sarcasm at its best.

I don't want to know what you say in the mens room or ROS, but in the co-ed room (imo) it should not be allowed. You have spots to talk private and it is just rude to do it in the open rooms. Like I said you guys don't want to be called out on your lies! Originally Posted by Sabrababy

You want to run the board maybe you should talk to the owners about buying it. Jeez!!!

Ms. E, I am saying "Lies" is a Sarcastic way!

Nash, how can I help but luv you!

Omahan, I never said anything about running the board! Maybe us ladies would like to make a comment on something and you guys not be able to see it!

Ms. E, I am saying "Lies" is a Sarcastic way!

Nash, how can I help but luv you!

Omahan, I never said anything about running the board! Maybe us ladies would like to make a comment on something and you guys not be able to see it! Originally Posted by Sabrababy

How is someone supposed to know you're being sarcastic? I don't think you got the response you wanted from your post, so you're turning the tables around. Just my opinion.


That's what the powder room and/or local infoshare is for. Plus, there's a discussion area on providerbuzz and nationalblacklist.

How is someone supposed to know you're being sarcastic? I don't think you got the response you wanted from your post, so you're turning the tables around. Just my opinion.


That's what the powder room and/or local infoshare is for. Plus, there's a discussion area on providerbuzz and nationalblacklist. Originally Posted by MsElena

Ms, E

You can assume or think what you want. I don't have to try and cover my ass because I did not get the response you think I wanted.
In fact I pretty much got the response I though I would!
If you go to my posts on this subject in another thread you will see where I put LOL after the comment of "LIES".

When you ASSUME: You make a ASS out of U and ME!

I don't want to know what you say in the mens room or ROS, but in the co-ed room (imo) it should not be allowed. You have spots to talk private and it is just rude to do it in the open rooms. Like I said you guys don't want to be called out on your lies! Originally Posted by Sabrababy

If you do not know what we say, how can you can them lies? Originally Posted by cowboy_john

Must be our you would have nothing to hide! Originally Posted by Sabrababy

Ms, E

You can assume or think what you want. I don't have to try and cover my ass because I did not get the response you think I wanted.
In fact I pretty much got the response I though I would!
If you go to my posts on this subject in another thread you will see where I put LOL after the comment of "LIES".

When you ASSUME: You make a ASS out of U and ME! Originally Posted by Sabrababy

I completely agree with Ms.E with this.

I don't think that we ladies should be able to see the ROS. Not knowing what is said in the Ros, but not being naive, I have a pretty good idea, it would probably cause a lot of problems if the ladies could see it and for me I think some of the things they say could be embarrassing or hurtful to the girl being reviewed and the girl could be vindictive and cause problems elsewhere for the gent.
The gentlemen need to be able to be honest about their experience and be protected against retaliation.

That being said:
I believe that in the public rooms everyone should be able to see. My understanding of Public is no privacy. If some are allowed privacy in public then all should be allowed.

And when I say "lies", I am being sarcastic. I don't think you all lie! I do know that a lot of you do though just by reading the reviews.

Have a wonderful thankful day Originally Posted by Sabrababy

The last quote was taken from another thread, but on the same subject.


Are we reading the same posts? LOL

I'm not assuming, I know so based upon the exchanges in this thread. But hey, call it what you wish. Its your posts and a subject you seem to care highly about.

Have a great day.

Actually I think what Sabra would like, and it makes sense to me, would be that Verified Providers and those with Premium Access could see the private messages only in the Coed section of the board.