- jacklost
- 08-24-2013, 09:06 AM
If, for instance, your opinion is that a particular provider is disgusting, fat and old - can one voice that opinion in the open forum?
- pornodave69
- 08-24-2013, 09:26 AM
You can voice your opinion in an open forum or in the reviews, but you may just open a big can of worms with that. If you post it in the review I recommend you put it in the ROS section for more privacy. Just be ready for extreme blowback from that provider and her fans if you do, especially if she's a member of this board, and possibly even if not. Even if you post it in the private sections on the board it's bound to get back to her. If she's not a member, someone will probably tell her anyway and she'll join just to dispute your claims and rip you a new one.
It may be better to handle it tactfully by saying "she's heavier and older than I expected" or "she wasn't my type," instead of she's "disgusting, fat and old." Of course, now that you've posed this question, whomever you do review or mention we will pretty much get the idea of what you're really saying.
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Good luck.
It may be better to handle it tactfully by saying "she's heavier and older than I expected" or "she wasn't my type," instead of she's "disgusting, fat and old." Of course, now that you've posed this question, whomever you do review or mention we will pretty much get the idea of what you're really saying.
Be mindful of the first for rules in the forum guidelines:
#1 - Avoid cases of unprovoked rudeness to others. No place for it here. Yes, with the dynamic nature of the threads and topics, tempers will flare and things will become heated from time to time. You may often encounter individuals who become passionate or emotional when expressing one's opinion or point of view. That's all understood and perfectly acceptable within reason…….but, start slamming or bashing another member and be met with consequences.
#2 - Derogatory racial remarks are simply unacceptable, period. Disrespect another's ethnic background and you will most certainly regret it.
#3 - Disrespect to others, IN GENERAL, will be considered an item of low tolerance, especially when posting in our coed forums. Follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated yourself. This applies to fellow members as well as staff. We do not require that you have respect for us, but we do require that you treat us respectfully in the public forums. If you feel the need to vent, gripe, or blow off some steam regarding a staff member's action or decision, we ask that you keep it private. Email, RTM, or the PM system would be the appropriate avenue to take in such cases. In cases where you would like to request additional clarity about a staff decision, you are free to pursue an answer in either a public forum or private means of communication. If handled publicly, post your inquiry in a respectful manner.
#4 - Blatant insults or hostility toward another member will be met with staff intervention. This applies to using our coed forums for name calling, personal attacks, or vulgar slang terms to describe fellow members. If you have legitimate concerns about another member here, share them tactfully in the appropriate private forums or with staff.
Good luck.
- jacklost
- 08-24-2013, 09:37 AM
Good thorough answer, thank you. I almost opened a 'can of worms' yesterday. I'm glad I thought twice, now.