cuckolding fetish

That wouldn't be cuckolding that would just be mistress domination. I'm alpha so I enjoy being a bull. The subs pleasure comes from know that a more alpha/ virile male drives his partner wild.

I used to get together with a couple I met from Jet Set many years ago. He'd sit in a chair in the corner of the room while I used & fucked his wife. The routine was that I'd get her off several times and then shoot my load all over her used cunt. He'd then crawl over and clean her up. She'd usually orgasm several more times from the DATY he'd perform while getting her squeaky clean. He was a successful business man, always in charge outside of the bedroom but a toal little sissy in the bedroom; especially while I was using his wife.

There is a big demand for very virile bull males with large cum loads to satisfy the many unfulfilled SOs out there. Many gals have submissive bfs who dont satisfy them fully and for many complex reasons, prefer just getting a bull male to play with the couple. Many run ads on BP.

I just would love to find a provider who enjoyed this dynamic, even during 1on1, her seeing the power that would have over me.
One step at a time, I suppose.

The dynamic is having a hotttt provider who can foster the cuckold experience with two males. One male needs to be a very virile alpha bull who can fully satisfy the provider and the other needs to the ultra submissive. The ultra submissive needs to be prepared to just watch the bull in action and then do the "clean up" under the direction of the provider and the bull. Just having a one on one with the provider doesnt create the dynamic of an erotic cuckold experience.

The dynamic is having a hotttt provider who can foster the cuckold experience with two males. One male needs to be a very virile alpha bull who can fully satisfy the provider and the other needs to the ultra submissive. The ultra submissive needs to be prepared to just watch the bull in action and then do the "clean up" under the direction of the provider and the bull. Just having a one on one with the provider doesnt create the dynamic of an erotic cuckold experience. Originally Posted by whitechocolate

I would agree, but consideration is being taken for my hesitancy of diving head first into this.
If I were to ever go through with this act it would take an initial comfort with the provider alone. Building up to the scenario taking place in future visits.

Why I am most drawn to the interracial cuckolding, I am unsure, but it would be the way I would draw it up.
So, ideally, at first just getting on good terms with a provider who outside the hobby (or in) was more drawn to black men

Bedams, interracial cuckolding is definitely very hotttt. There are many black bulls available. If you have an ATF provider, you should approach her with your fantasy and the two of you can soon take it to the next level. Many white Dallas providers are drawn to bllack men. There is nothing to fear by just jumping in and seeing where it goes.

I understand where if someone is beyond their apprehensions, suggests to jump in .......

Personally the biggest reason I am even delving into "hobbying" is because, I have held back from most everything other than basic stuff.
So, there is still a big line to cross for me to entertain such activity with more than just myself and a woman (though I know this at best entails role-play) for the moment.
I do sense the right woman with the right bedside manner, will bring about the right course of activities over time.
I do appreciate your replies, sorta allow me to stop beating myself up about the "guilt" I feel over finding this so fascinating.

I do have a friend (guy) thats into the cuck situation for mmf and mfm too, sounds interesting never done it but want to and so does he wth me which is kinda flattering and a turn on in a nasty way lol

I'll probably regret putting this in a public forum, but WTF?

I've done the cuckold scenario several times in the P4P arena. Just couldn't ever get my SO to go for it and I knew I wanted to experience it. It was with a lady I had met thru aspd and we met alone several times. We also did a lot of chatting via Yahoo which is where I divulged my fantasy. She was married and said she could put a scene together. I figured I should go for it. So here's how the first time happened.

We met at her hotel. She put a blindfold on the doorknob and I was to knock on the door, and right before she opened it, put the blindfold on. No problem. The only real problem was that when I pulled into the parking lot I saw the husband. He did not fit my image, but I figured WTF? (See a pattern here?)

Anyway, into the hotel I go. I'm blindfolded and told to strip. She leads me into the bathroom where I am directed to bathe her. I can't see, but my hands are all over her body as I wash her. It was teasingly maddening. And erotic. It seemed to take forever and I was impatient, but she was in charge and I wasn't going to break character.

Finally, we go to the bedroom and I am directed to put lotion on her. More teasing, more frustration but also erotic. Finally, and I do mean finally, I am ordered to orally service her. She was soaked and I dined at the Y for a very, very long time. Hungrily, I might add.

At some point I heard her reach for the phone (I'm still blindfolded) and she tells her husband she needs to be fucked by a real man. After a minute or two, I hear the door open so I know he's in the room. I continue to dine and my memory is that I was hotter than I have ever been. He goes to take a shower (nice touch) and he is in there for a long time. Again, I'm impatient and eager to go, but she is running the show. I continue to dine.

The shower stops so I know the moment of truth is at hand. He comes in, I can feel he is close. They mumble something and the next thing I know she is with him while I am still dining. Eventually I am moved away so he can fuck her. At this point I am allowed to remove my blindfold while they go at it.

Whoever said it is not quite the same as it would be seeing your wife being taken by another man is correct. But it's not bad either. He pounds he for awhile, and she is saying things to me like---it feels good to be fucked by a real man--his big dick feels so good--he's so much better at this than I am, etc. Eventually he cums and I am ordered to clean her. Yep, I did it. With gusto, I might add.

There is some resting and some idle chit chat. The husband is putting me at ease and it's cool. Then I say I doubt he could go again so quickly. With that, he begins to fuck her again--HARD--and she also takes my cock into her mouth. This is hot. He cums. I don't. I clean her again. We rest again, then he leaves and she and I continue our little roleplay.

She and I--and he--probably did variations on this 5-10 times before she moved or retired. Every blue moon, I'll get an email from her--although I haven't in a long time--and we will talk about the good old days and talk about getting together again. But it never happens. I do not see her name anywhere so I know she's mostly retired, if not totally.

Those were some visits where I stretched my boundaries and satisfied my need to explore. Would I do it again? Yes, with the right couple. But it takes time, cause you need a lady who truly understands the scene and also understands what she needs to do to get inside the cuckold's head in the right way. I do not think it is a one-size-fits-all kind of thing.

Addionally, while she is playing the dominant role--as is the Bull--the truth is it is/was all about my needs and desires. I mean, if it isn't done right--it's just the cuck watching two people fuck. And really, that's not that erotic at my age. LOL.

I've often had the fantasy of watching my ATF suck the cock of a man (or men) who can't speak English while making eye contact with me. Conversely, the cuckold fantasy can work with roles reversed. I've had one session with two providers, where one was tied spread eagle and blindfolded to a bed, while she listened to me performing DATY on her friend in the next bed. Drove her crazy listening, and made for one of the loveliest and wettest pussies I've ever tasted.

In my extensive experience, cuckolding is MOST satisfying when you have some VERY STRONG ATTRACTION for the female(wife, SO or provider) and the other male is extremely virile and very much an alpha stud who preferable is truly a better lover than you in one or more ways and can totally dominate the female while you watch. After he finishes ravaging her, you do the clean up. I have watched incredibly virile BBC studs ravage two wives many times and it is a very powerful erotic experience. If you can get your wife or SO or ATF on board to give it a try, definitely go for it. Just having any female in the fantasy is clearly not as powerful an experience.

Guys need to realize that just watching a provider or any female get pounded by a very virile stud and do the clean up is not cuckolding. To have it be cuckolding, you need to be in a cuckold relationship with a female who you have feelings for so that watching the pounding and doing the clean up is more than just kinky porn. You can pretend you have that cuckold relationship with any female or provider but to me that is not the same as if you have a real relationship with the female. You cant just pick any female out of hat. That is why best to use your wife or SO or ATF and then find a virile stud.

Its hot watching a beautiful woman having sex and enjoying herself. Watching someone who is special to you must be amazingly hot.

ok I am new to this does it count by fucking a young wife in front of her husband and leaving so they can fuck