Girlfriend possibly interested in a fling...

HuntBigBucks's Avatar
The girl I have been dating for a while is very sexual. We have great energy together and the best sex we have either had as we are both very open and direct in the sack. During a little foreplay a few weeks ago I started whispering in her ear about another woman going down on her...she got very wet and went to another level of excitement.

Since then, she has talked about how she nearly made out with a friend a few years ago. She was married then and the situation never presented again. I have told her I was going to take her to a strip club or that I was going to set her up on a massage and have the therapist seduce her while I watched.

She has already said she couldn't handle me being with the other woman...she said she would imagine it being me going down on her...I laughed and told her she would have me elsewhere...she just smiled like "when?"

She knows I used to hobby as I've been very up front and honest about my path...oddly, she seemed very relieved last week when she asked "how did it work?" And I have her details of I call locations. She thought it was like streetwalkers on Harry Hines. She then said, "not that big of a deal".

Question is...are there any ladies who might be interested in doing something like this? We are both white. She is a petite blonde...5'4" 108 pounds. I am 5'7" 190. I'm 40 and she's a little younger but looks a lot younger. I would say we are both attractive. Neither of us do drugs and I drink but she does very little. I would only be involved with her...if not just watching. What kind of scenario are you thinking?

The other thing we have talked about is being in a room and watching another couple have sex...I know someone used to do shows like that on here. Rod & Holly? Can't remember...anyone still do this. Might be up for a girl/girl show too...

This girl has been sheltered in a marriage for years but seems interested in a little adventure. Let me know what you got.
Thanks.
falconbueller's Avatar
Now you are just bragging... Lol. Just kidding... Good luck! Sounds fun.
HuntBigBucks's Avatar
Now you are just bragging... Lol. Just kidding... Good luck! Sounds fun. Originally Posted by falconbueller
Haha, def not bragging. Just a good fit for me and her. I have explored some...she just hasn't had anyone open to her ideas/suggestions.
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  • BJerk
  • 01-10-2014, 09:30 PM
Maybe some of the spas accept women customers, or the massage parlors.
DarthDVader's Avatar
I have thought about it ... Im sure they do ...
Maybe some of the spas accept women customers, or the massage parlors. Originally Posted by Bert Jones
Maybe she wants you to watch her with another guy.
Collettes.
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Collettes. Originally Posted by thathottnurse
+1 on collettes. Take her there with no expectations in mind and just go with the flow. Who knows what will take place
Neotek's Avatar
She is a petite blonde...5'4" 108 pounds. I am 5'7" 190. Originally Posted by HuntBigBucks
She's a little too thin for meh. But you...you're right up my alley. Do you spit or swallow and are you allergic to kittehs!?
Swinger clubs for sure. Should have no problem at all getting a 2ed woman to participate.

Or, post in ISO. Requests for a couples friendly provider pop up on a regular basis
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  • NYr
  • 01-11-2014, 11:05 AM
Not to rain on your party....just be sure she doesn't expect a MFM experience in return if you are not into MFM....I had an xGF want to do FMF out of the blue and I was very suspicious and asked questions to come to the conclusion she was wanting to do it so that we would do MFM.
HuntBigBucks's Avatar
Thanks for the input. No she isn't wanting a MFM at all. Not kmy thing either...I'll look into some if your suggestions.

I've never heard of Colletts.
Collettes is one of the nicer swing clubs
It used to be iniquity. It's very nice. Saturday nights are traditionally the best night. The problem is that most couples are going to want you to swap. That said, you may still want to go so she can check out the "feel" of the whole thing. And you can definitely hook up with each other near or in front of others.

A strip club is probably the best first step. Take her. Let her pick out her favorite. Get her a few dances. That's the safest option for certain.

Then you may want to schedule a session with a couples friendly provider of her choice, The first time someone does this can be electrifying but sometimes awkward, especially after if you have to see the extra person again.

One more word of caution...sometimes fantasies are better left as fantasies...
  • zebra
  • 01-12-2014, 12:10 PM
Iniquity... Place was a sess pool. Disgusting there at the end....

I sure hope they ripped out the carpet and steam cleaned the walls before Collettes moved into the building...