Time for a Rant!!

Okay, it's rant time. Let me present four scenarios that have all actually happened, to me, within the past six months. All four involve set-ups with ECCIE-reviewed providers.

(1) I made the initial call. "Okay, call from the intersection of A & B". And I did. "Okay, now turn left and call when you get to C." And I did. "Okay, now go a mile, turn right, and call from D." My reply was "Can't we quit playing this call, call, call, system and just tell me where you are?" The reply? "Well, I don't think I want to see you."

(2) I made the initial call. "Okay, I'm in the XYZ Motel. Call when you're in the parking lot." I made the call. The reply? "You know, I've never had anybody call me from where you did initially. I'm uncomfortable with that. I don't want to see you."

(3) I made the initial call. "Call me when you're turning into my complex." I made the call. "Oh my goodness, are you hear already? I'm not ready and I don't have any 'condominiums'. Can you just go to the store, get some, and come back in 15 minutes. I'll be ready." It was already the appointment time.

(4) I made the call that I was on the way. "Okay, I'm already here and ready for you." Fifteen minutes later, I got a call from the provider. "Listen, can you come to X instead? I have car problems and can't get to Y." X and Y are 20 miles apart. I'm already almost to Y. I said, "I thought you were there and ready." The reply? "Well, I couldn't get there."

So, what's going on? This isn't rocket science, ladies. Be where you are supposed to be, when you are supposed to be there, with what you need to be there, ready to go. It's as simple as that. Basically, you are in business offering a service. If you can't do the simple things, just get out of the business. I don't care how sexy you are or how good your reviews are. If you don't handle the basics, I don't want to see you!

At least half of the appointments I try to make end this way. I'd like to hear from both providers and clients about their thoughts. Is there any way to "ensure" a better chance of a successful hookup?

Is there any way to "ensure" a better chance of a successful hookup? Originally Posted by luv2luv

If any other business constantly screwed up basic stuff, would you try to change what you're doing to somehow make them more reliable or would you just look for another business? Put up with the hassles or select better, more reliable escorts to do business with are the only real options, IMHO.

I am always on time...I leave extra early for outcalls so I can check things out and avoid any unexpected traffic.

Never go to work without your supplies, I think when they make you run to the store is just unprofessional.

There could be a million things but we wont go into that....

If any other business constantly screwed up basic stuff, would you try to change what you're doing to somehow make them more reliable or would you just look for another business? Put up with the hassles or select better, more reliable escorts to do business with are the only real options, IMHO. Originally Posted by Waldo P. Emerson-Jones

I can only offer than same advice
Safire Sweet

That is something I would never do. I am always at my incall for the alotted appointment time. I don't believe in string people along. Whatever happened to CUSTOMER SERVICE???

i get the rant however put a name to each of your scenarios.

i get the rant however put a name to each of your scenarios. Originally Posted by Thatdude

Exactly.

Because each of those scenarios could easily have been avoided IF the provider was taking care of her business properly, why are you penalizing potential clients of her while at the same time protecting providers who appears to be time wasters?

Once those erratic providers phone calls slow down (and others who DO take care of business phones ring more, it will either get the erratic ones to change or they will soon be asking "Would you like a refill on that Dr Pepper" from the Wendy's counter.

But the first and most critical step is naming the erratic ones.

These women are counting on your desire for sex to be greater then your need for respect. Next time just tell them "Thanks, but no thanks. I'll go to my plan B". Too many decent ones here to put up with shitty attitudes.

I dont like to answer my phone if im not at my incall or 5 min from it and try to space appointments far enough out if I'm running errands or something.

Sorry about your problems but name names or this is actualy useless. Does nothing to help prevent these girls from doing it over and over and insults many of the women who do take care of business by lumping them in with those that dont.

Two points.

I didn't see any of these four providers. These incidents were definite "mood killers" and, given the circumstances, I just didn't bother to try to see them either then or since.

As far as publishing the names, no, I am not going to do that. None of them did anything that was not within their rights. And, despite the fact that I don't think what they did was at all professional, I am not going to drive them into the dirt. The purpose of reviews is to put out these kind of details. I did not see any of them so there are no reviews. I always read available reviews, so some might say I had it coming because, in at least a couple of cases, the lady's "flakiness" was documented.

My only thought is that if they are that flaky they are liable to do something stupid that puts you at risk. Pick someone else.

If you are using the information guys share about bad experiences then you should be willing to share yourself.

There are some excellent young providers, however; you rarely read or hear of these things happening with ladies over 35. It happens but it is rare.

not piling on but you did admit to reading reports on their flakiness. I respect your reasoning for not wanting put names however it does water down your rant