When pt is involved what do u do?

Don't know if anyone will answer this. But let's say a provider had serious pt issues and then goes to rehab and gets clean and sober but still remains a provider, what are the chances she is still using or will eventually go back even when the pt issues were everything you could think of or is the providing itself the only addiction she is not willing to forego? Does it give confidence to a woman to be an escort?

I don't know about pt but I know an ex duo partner needed to drink to be comfortable then it turned into an addiction from providing 3-7 days a week and drinking before every date.
She couldn't do one without the other and it really changed who she was.
That's the only insight I have.

Any person or provider that had serious pt issues, has a better chance than most to return to using pt.

There is a such thing as an addictive personality.

poplips,
Enjoy the time with now. If she starts again, just say I wish you didn't. Keep enjoying till it gets to much for you and then back off. Your not her daddy. When is to much for you, that would be up to you.
I myself would rather deal with PT than a drunk.
And sex itself can be a addiction that many males, and a few females in this have.
Just the money that can be made by some gals is a addiction.

Don't know if anyone will answer this. But let's say a provider had serious pt issues and then goes to rehab and gets clean and sober but still remains a provider, what are the chances she is still using or will eventually go back even when the pt issues were everything you could think of or is the providing itself the only addiction she is not willing to forego? Does it give confidence to a woman to be an escort? Originally Posted by poplips

Any person or provider that had serious pt issues, has a better chance than most to return to using pt. Originally Posted by Celso

I half agree with Celso, providing can raise the chance for relapse because it is a life around the party. But as for the relapse occurring due to confidence or self-esteem, that's really on the person more than can be expressed. Sure, I'll agree that hooking can be of above average challenge as far as high-esteem careers go, but generally the feelings of self-worth or lack thereof that hound addictive personalities transcend career. The questions you ask are about the person more than the profession.

I myself would rather deal with PT than a drunk. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Prefer to avoid them both. Have found both are equally bad and sad.

Prefer to avoid them both. Have found both are equally bad and sad. Originally Posted by Celso

I prefer no PT or being a drunk myself. But I typed it so I own it.
I still rather deal with PT over a drunk.

Last night this was also a topic

Smoke some peace

I half agree with Celso, providing can raise the chance for relapse because it is a life around the party. But as for the relapse occurring due to confidence or self-esteem, that's really on the person more than can be expressed. Sure, I'll agree that hooking can be of above average challenge as far as high-esteem careers go, but generally the feelings of self-worth or lack thereof that hound addictive personalities transcend career. The questions you ask are about the person more than the profession. Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

I agree with JC. I also don't believe that one can make generalizations about this type of thing when it comes to an individual.

I don't think it's making generalizations. It's about patterns. I am very much torn by either saying there are fewer providers with PT issues than more without. I understand it is quick money to make and I guess I don't know on which side to weigh in. If this particular provider is once more offering her services I have to consider the past and assume pt issues again. You cannot change behavior in 28 days. Though she may claim she is not and tells me I can't stand it that she's clean and and sober but yet still lives in an area were she got high and still hangs with a career addict who she claims ls after 20 years doesn't want to use anymore I have to weigh in and consider all this and say that the providing is showing she's back to using. I think

Don't know if anyone will answer this. But let's say a provider had serious pt issues and then goes to rehab and gets clean and sober but still remains a provider, what are the chances she is still using or will eventually go back even when the pt issues were everything you could think of or is the providing itself the only addiction she is not willing to forego? Does it give confidence to a woman to be an escort? Originally Posted by poplips

I don't think it's making generalizations. It's about patterns. I am very much torn by either saying there are fewer providers with PT issues than more without. I understand it is quick money to make and I guess I don't know on which side to weigh in. If this particular provider is once more offering her services I have to consider the past and assume pt issues again. You cannot change behavior in 28 days. Though she may claim she is not and tells me I can't stand it that she's clean and and sober but yet still lives in an area were she got high and still hangs with a career addict who she claims ls after 20 years doesn't want to use anymore I have to weigh in and consider all this and say that the providing is showing she's back to using. I think Originally Posted by poplips

I think you misunderstood my reply. I am not suggesting you are making generalizations, but your questions kind of ask others about generalizing their experiences and opinions to your individual girl.

Call it patterns if you feel more comfortable with that term , but another person's patterns won't necessarily fit your girl as an individual. There are many who slip back into the habit, but there are also many former users who are no longer using.

Nobody on here knows your lady as well as you do, although you may also be biased by being too close to the situation as well. These kind of issues and questions involving PT use are extremely difficult to deal with for all involved -- especially the people who are trying to save the addict and get abused in the process. Tread lightly and good luck!

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Nobody on here knows your lady as well as you do, although you may also be biased by being too close to the situation as well. These kind of issues and questions involving PT use are extremely difficult to deal with for all involved -- especially the people who are trying to save the addict and get abused in the process. Tread lightly and good luck! Originally Posted by Taskmaster

Just go fuck her behind a dumpster and report back already.

Just go fuck her behind a dumpster and report back already. Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

Lol. Literally Spit my coffee out. Ruined my favorite tie. Asshole.

Seriously, these posts are the best. I'm new at this but I just can't imagine getting so attached to a provider. And shouldn't you be embracing her pt issues. Chances are she wouldn't have sex with you if she didn't have this issue and need your money.

This site has helped my search skills immensely. And that was one bizarre alert.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...light=dumpster