I'm new to the hobby and would like advice on how to start and get references built. Seems like a lot of providers require at least two references. Please help.
I always suggest starting off with Preferred411.com. many ladies here use it & it is a good way to start off even if you have no prior references. Also check some of the ladies ads and profiles, they will clearly state Newbie Friendly. Maybe start a thread in the ISO forum for Newbie friendly Providers and you'll find plenty of help there. Expect to be screened by these ladies & the best advise I can give you is to make things as easy as possible for them to screen you. The safer & more comfortable they feel, the more fun you'll have!
Thanks for the tips Gents. As far as getting Screened, what does that entail? A blood test? I'm in the military so I'm a clean cut guy and consider myself fairly normal with a healthy appetite.
Usually references or employment its really up to the girls.... If you get p411 dude that will help you out tons!! It'll make it easier for girls to screen you.
Alright, I just signed up for P411. I have to say that I felt pretty damn uncomfortable giving out my employer info (which is basically my livelyhood - but I did it anyway).