What would you do???

BabyDallass's Avatar
There is a member on here who I saw today at my incall. He was an older man, seemed very polite. He walks in throws his envelope on the dresser and gives me a hug. We sit and talk for a while then do our thing....after he goes in the bathroom like routine and I check the envelope. Dumb move on me not to check it infront of him and before the date...I look in there it's $$ short. I confront him about it and he says that he must of got his envelopes mixed up? I asked him why he carries money in blank envelopes and he says so he won't spend his money.? He reaches in his wallet and gives me what I'm owed. I thought Ok whatever it was a lame excuse and blew it off because of his age he's much older and maybe he's losing it. I just got a text from him accusing me of taking the money when he went in the bathroom! Like really? I'm appalled and have never went through this before. I never like to count the money right in the clients face out of RESPECT, but never again for now on I will have the client count the money out to me and for me! This will never happen to me again. I think his scam didn't go as planned and he needed a way out. Bad karma will see him for lying on someone. Ladies take this as a lesson! So yea when you pay me count it out to me...this is a whole new level of SCAM!....oh, and he had a gun he carried on his hip. Said it was for him protection and mine. Smh I don't get people.
Josey Wales's Avatar
So. I don't know anything about the situation, but with regards to the envelopes and getting them mixed up, carrying money around in envelopes, etc. There is a thing called the "envelope system". Google it. It is a way to budget money. Let's say you budget $500 for the month for groceries so you put $500 in an envelope for groceries. When you run out of money in that envelope you are done buying groceries for the month. I use to work with a guy who carried all his money for the month in envelopes inside an oversized wallet. It worked well for him. I won't speak to his accusation of money being stolen, but I'm not certain this is a new scam either.
BabyDallass's Avatar
I don't think it's smart for a very old man to randomly place money in envelopes that he misplaces and can't find! That's a real dumb way to save money, you end up sticking it in a envelope and then you lose it? So you just lost your money...smh

I say it's a new scam...I'm sure guys have got away with it. Better luck on someone else....smh. And they want to act like we are the thieves and liars...puhhhfuckingplease! I don't have to take $$ dollars from a very old man that's bad karma. Geez...someone don't know what that is I see even at his old age of 70, poor him.
BabyDallass's Avatar
& ladies if you don't want this scam to happen to you. You can PM me for his handle!
Sounds like Grandpa Chip went over budget, if he is using the envelope system. I personally think he was trying to pull a fast one on you. And what's with the gun, if something did go down he'll probably have a heart attack before he gets the gun out.

I don't have a problem at all with anyone counting the money, matter of fact I always count it before I leave just so were both on the same page. I don't want to be that guy that accidentally miscounted a twenty. And I don't use envelopes, I walk in put the money down so she can see it, there's no secret what we're doing.
& ladies if you don't want this scam to happen to you. You can PM me for his handle! Originally Posted by BabyDallass
I see a plz delete my account in the near future.
BabyDallass's Avatar
Sounds like Grandpa Chip went over budget, if he is using the envelope system. I personally think he was trying to pull a fast one on you. And what's with the gun, if something did go down he'll probably have a heart attack before he gets the gun out.

I don't have a problem at all with anyone counting the money, matter of fact I always count it before I leave just so were both on the same page. I don't want to be that guy that accidentally miscounted a twenty. And I don't use envelopes, I walk in put the money down so she can see it, there's no secret what we're doing. Originally Posted by Worldtravler
Exactly! I don't like the sneaky envelope thing! And the way he did it is he threw it down on the dresser then it flew off and he has to pick it up off the floor and place it back on the dresser! Come to think about it now, I should of known much money wasn't in there if it wouldn't even hold weight when he threw in on the dresser! Smh...yea that carrying a gun at his age made me think what are you up to with that? Like he already had bad intentions in the first place. The nerve of people though. The little slick old man almost got me...lol
I make certain I have the correct donation agreed upon. I generally use hundred $ bills,it's the only money I bring in to the date.i leave wallet,other money and firearm in vehicle. I would never stiff a lady.very uncool to rip a provider off.
splitlog's Avatar
I never put money in a envelope for a girl unless she requests me to do so.
I always just pay up front except for my regular. Sometimes we both forget and I have had to run by and see her after work
But a non regular I always pay before. Then tip afterwards
I have only had two providers count the money, both times on first visits. It did not bother me. One told me she had been scammed by bogus bills before so she always checked. She may have run one of those detector pens across to check. I don't know, I was too busy staring at her fine ass in that thong.
Don't post your hooker problems on the forums please
thickboner4u's Avatar
I make certain I have the correct donation agreed upon. I generally use hundred $ bills,it's the only money I bring in to the date.i leave wallet,other money and firearm in vehicle. I would never stiff a lady.very uncool to rip a provider off. Originally Posted by peter north77
ditto
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I hate envolopes but if a guy puts the money in then I take it out and count it before the date. I don't sit there and slowly count each bill but I do spread of the bills and look of it really quick. I don't like spending too much time counting money, but I also don't like coming up short. Sounds like he tried to get over on you which sucks.
ddepthroatme's Avatar
That is why I AWAYS place donations in plain sight 1st or 5th time
I hate envolopes but if a guy puts the money in then I take it out and count it before the date. I don't sit there and slowly count each bill but I do spread of the bills and look of it really quick. I don't like spending too much time counting money, but I also don't like coming up short. Sounds like he tried to get over on you which sucks. Originally Posted by Danielle Reid
This....

I typically just throw the money on the floor and tell her she can have what she she can pick up, but i get whats left. She bends to grab it, I fuck the shit out of her.


In all seriousness, it's not disrespectful to count the money in front of the client.