Videos and parting ways.....?

Okay so a while back I had explored the whole video deal with a client. It turned me on more then expected. There is just something exciting to me about watching myself please another, and visa versa.

So my question is how do a provider and a client part ways comfortably?
Do you make sure your faces aren't showing? Dose a provider just charge more taking a risk? Do both part with a copy?

Recently I was forced to tell some very important people in my life about my secrete activities in the biz. At first it was terrifying but it went surprisingly well. It feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders and Im ready to let my FREAK FLAG FLY!!

That being said I have no real concerns or issues if I were to make a video and it end up in the wrong hands. But whos to say in 2-5 years from now it wouldn't be an concern.
I would love to continue doing video sessions but still in a safe way.
So What works for you, what helps you feel secure and comfortable leaving a video session with a provider/client?

Can you please shed some light on this situation for me?

Well since you bring it up. I watched a video today that was taking of me. It was of the first time and only time doing greek and it was so hot. He did not record my face so I think maybe not showing the face is the way to go.
Just my opinion.

If you're not all tatted up , wear a Lone Ranger mask , unless you can blur face . Probably difficult to set camera up in a way that cuts your face out , and it's probably sexually limiting . Multi camera will probably be best for fixed position camera work .

You could use mask, make it into masquerade style fun, yet still preserving anonymity
be sure to cover tats, other identifiers with sexy clothing or something etc, then it's just two or more people at play and only those people know it's them.

Trying to hide your face while in the middle of a hot moment can be challenging...lol

And I was going to say something on the tat comment they have good make -up that covers that all up..

I'll make a video with you. No faces, other than that - you'll be fine. Let that freak flag fly, mami.

Thanks for your ideas, this is why I wanted some pointers. My tats are an issue but event without tats it would still be an issue do to some very distinguishing scars from a car accident.
I luv the mask idea that could be sexy.

Thanks champagne I did think about makeup too, but damn lets face it thatd be a whole lot of makeup on my body lol

@ space cowboy Id like to try and earn a memory or two with you.

oops

I don't think I would want the lady to wear a mask. It would be interesting to see how many ladies allow video.

You know your own porno could be a great advertising tool. I've fucked plenty of girls based on seeing a video. You just have to be ok with forever being a self made porn star. I think you may make a good video Cassandra, also think Glynett would make an entertaining one. Need more video making chicks.

That being said I have no real concerns or issues if I were to make a video and it end up in the wrong hands. But whos to say in 2-5 years from now it wouldn't be an concern. Originally Posted by SexyCassandra

What about in 5 to 10 years from now? We cannot predict the future. It's a bad idea to do it, if you can be identified.

Sexy Cassandra, with your unique set of tats I doubt that you could make an anonymous video. Porn producers tell ladies entering the business to go do something else if they are going to get upset when their Dad/Mom/Preacher/etc. sees them in porn. Unless you are comfortable with that then you shouldn't do it. That's my 2 cents worth.

Nice new avatar btw!

Errrr... The OP was asking for advice on how to deal with a private video shoot, not soliciting opinions on the wisdom or dangers of making a private video. She's a consenting adult capable of determining for herself what level of risk she's comfortable with in the hobby.

To answer the OP, I think you should have full fidelity. I'd want the original copy and I'd do the editing and provide him with a copy when it was ready, unless the shoot was done with total anonymity guaranteed.

Well since you bring it up. I watched a video today that was taking of me. It was of the first time and only time doing greek and it was so hot. He did not record my face so I think maybe not showing the face is the way to go.
Just my opinion. Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

Okay so a while back I had explored the whole video deal with a client. It turned me on more then expected. There is just something exciting to me about watching myself please another, and visa versa.

So my question is how do a provider and a client part ways comfortably?
Do you make sure your faces aren't showing? Dose a provider just charge more taking a risk? Do both part with a copy?

Recently I was forced to tell some very important people in my life about my secrete activities in the biz. At first it was terrifying but it went surprisingly well. It feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders and Im ready to let my FREAK FLAG FLY!!

That being said I have no real concerns or issues if I were to make a video and it end up in the wrong hands. But whos to say in 2-5 years from now it wouldn't be an concern.
I would love to continue doing video sessions but still in a safe way.
So What works for you, what helps you feel secure and comfortable leaving a video session with a provider/client?

Can you please shed some light on this situation for me? Originally Posted by SexyCassandra

Errrr... The OP was asking for advice on how to deal with a private video shoot, not soliciting opinions on the wisdom or dangers of making a private video. She's a consenting adult capable of determining for herself what level of risk she's comfortable with in the hobby.

To answer the OP, I think you should have full fidelity. I'd want the original copy and I'd do the editing and provide him with a copy when it was ready, unless the shoot was done with total anonymity guaranteed. Originally Posted by enderwiggin

OMG, WTF is going on around here today? Is it a full moon?
She clearly solicited opinions, maybe not on the wisdom aspect but certainly the dangers and how best to avoid them.
Ender, while your answer to the op was certainly the most level headed even you recognized the danger and need for anonymity.

Sorry, I'm gonna step back a take a breath now.

All the answers I do appreciate. Even if you didn't answer my questions per say, one thought does leads to another so all responses are helpful.
Basically If you ever have had a video session or have wanted to have a video session what precautions have you taken or what precautions would you take? Just incase that video dose not stay privet between the client and provider what step/s would you take to be sure there was no regret, besides not doing the video at all? How would you leave the video session comfortably?