Question for the Ladies about outcalls to hotels...

I just wanted to ask the ladies if you require a room number and call it before going to an outcall at a hotel? Tonight I was just screwed around by some guy who I guess thinks its fun to just mess with us. He had references and checked out but here is how the chain of events happened: the appointment is set for 730 and I’m on my way to the hotel that’s about 30mins from me and then he texts me saying he can’t see me until 9pm! I’m aggravated but agree to see him at 9pm and show up to the hotel at 9pm and call him, no answer.

I text that I’m there and he texts me back right away asking where in the hotel I am? I say I’m walking towards the hotel right now and ask what room number. The guy doesn’t give me the room number but continues to screw me around for the next 30mins while I sit in the lobby. During that point I’m pretty sure he came up to me acting like a guy that was just hitting on me…the texts stopped at that point. Anyways I leave at 930 and tell him I’m leaving and thanks for wasting my time. He begs be to come back and says he’s been in a meeting (until 45 minutes past our appt time), right…

Anyways, the question I was asking is- do you ladies verify that a client is really staying in a specific room before you leave for the hotel? I’ve never had this issue before because I always screen and I don’t give guys my hotel room or apt number before they arrive so haven’t asked them to but I’m starting to re-think that…

I'm not a provider, but I'll tell you my experience has been that I tell the provider what my hotel and room number is, and then they verify by calling the hotel land line and asking for my room. Pretty easy way to make sure your time isn't wasted.

S

I'm not a provider, but I'll tell you my experience has been that I tell the provider what my hotel and room number is, and then they verify by calling the hotel land line and asking for my room. Pretty easy way to make sure your time isn't wasted.

S Originally Posted by qwertyjones

Excellent way to do it...but...wouldn't you have to tell the Provider your real name, too? Suppose u could make up an alias...Sorry this happened to you, Katie...this clown totally MISSED OUT on a GREAT TIME.

Katie

That is good idea.

Number one you know exactly where to go, so you won't have to sit in the lobby or car.

Well some hotels require the persons first name, that can be scary. But have the guy come up with an alias or something.

I am Melissa012, a Fort Worth provider, who has been an Escort for over 15+ years off and on. I always use this rule of thumb, when going to a hotel. I ask the client his name (full) because the hotels I go to are upscale mostly, and the desk will not transfer your call to the room unless you give correct name. Regular hotels, like comfort suites, budget suites, and other hotels where you can just dress casual and not be questioned won't question the guests name. I haven't had any bad rooms to date except many years ago in the late 90's in New Orleans where I am from. As you know alot of drunk people in NO. and sometimes they book and then go back out, or pass out, from being drunk. LOL I would say that if a client cannot give you his name, don't go to hotel. That way you won't waste your time. I always call the desk, and ask is there a Mr. So and So registered in room such and such. If they say yes I say please ring his room, if they say no , then there is your answer... Ps. never just sit in lobby it looks too suspicious...Melissa012

Yes I do...I learned my lesson...on sep. 14 which happend to be my birthday a client called and requested an outcall to desoto but I'm in north dallas...I agreed because I have seen him before for an incall session just a week prior...I decided to work on my bday because it was a wed and I would rather celebrate the following weekend...so the guy says to come at 10pm then says wait one hr because he was preparing a dinner and wine then he says to start coming he gives me an adress and I say I'm on my wayand when I get there to the hotel I never hear from him again...and still a month later no apology or any thing...men can really suck even if you have met them before so now I know to have them call me from the room phone and give me the room number and I call to see if that room is ooccupied even before iget ready to leave and all the nice gentlemen have no problem doings this for my comfort.

Katie it's very sweet of you to try and have an equal standard "I don’t give guys my hotel room or apt number before they arrive so haven’t asked them to". But you have a lot more at risk usually than a customer. I've had girls ask me if it's OK to call the room and I never object. Also in the 4 and 5 star hotels I give my name. Places like the Grand Hyatt or Ritz Carlton often have a security guard in the lobby who will pick out young unescorted girls walking around and ask the name of the guest they are visiting because they know what goes on. I actually had that happen once and thank goodness the provider had my name. Also look at it this way. It's not worth your time to go to an unverified outcall date because sometimes the whole thing may take a couple of hours of your time. Which is wasted if he's playing games.

Have the client call you from the room phone. It will not show you his room number but it WILL show it coming from the hotel.

Then before you leave for the outcall to the hotel, ASSuming you have screened him and have his first and last name, call the hotel and ask to be connected to his room.

If he is not staying there, don't leave.

While a little bit off topic, but something to consider too, some of the hotels aren't "visitor" friendly regardless. I encountered some during my travels on work. Some hotels require key card access to go to any room floors, so unless the person comes down to get you, you can't simply take the elevator up to the room. That isn't cool what happened to you at all.