How to ask a provider known for BBBJ if CBJ is permitted

Hey guys,

Total noob here, wanting to protect myself. I know that typically asking about services beforehand is not kosher, but in this case

a) a no on CBJs is a nonstarter for me
b) what I'm proposing *is* safer for everyone involved

Thoughts on how to broach this?

Just slap the vest on your Jimmy before she goes down. No need for a detailed convo beforehand.

Okay cool so it's highly unlikely she'll find that o objectionable? None of her reviews mention CBJ so that makes me slightly nervous.

You may want to consider getting some non lubricated condoms if your choice is for a cbj. The majority of us prefer bbbj, but in the providers case, I'm sure the lubricant tastes pretty nasty asides from the latex.

Okay cool so it's highly unlikely she'll find that o objectionable? None of her reviews mention CBJ so that makes me slightly nervous. Originally Posted by almondflour

Im pretty sure a provider who offers bbbj will not turn you down for a cbj.. Do what the other provider said & get non lubricant hats..

Ive had it happen a few times it wasn't a big deal

I'm with you almond.
Oh how I wish i could enjoy a bbbj from my favorite provider while keeping my peace of mind intact. Luckily, I haven't seen a lady who took issue with my cover request. I think it was easier for them to be so understanding because I made it clear that it was simply a personal preference as opposed to approaching them with kid gloves like a boogeyman. Sometimes i have even incorporated edible lubricants 2 add to the experience.

Thanks nola, good to hear. I didn't think it would be an issue, just wasn't 100%.

No provider I've ever met is going to turn down covered anything.

Some providers ONLY provide bbbj because they believe they won't get business otherwise and would rather give cbj to random men they've never met and don't know their sexual history and STD status.

I personally do my homework. If the provider checks you out before hand, I imagine she would come across it now that you've posted this.

Good luck, happy hobbying

good boy. get some mint flavor or coca cola

Also I have many gents before we even start the nuru front slide to tell me that all kisses will be covered. No biggie to say to her. Specially if you get the flavors from porn shop

Yes, get the flavored hats

Just tell her you prefer cbj's. No need to explain anything. It's not like you're asking for BB sex. If you're worried about just go after a BP gal. Many of them are cbj only.

Ive had fellas ask for CBJ and its fine with me if they prefer that.

I like Skyn condoms for CBJs they are thin, soft and have barely have any taste like other condoms.

Just slap the vest on your Jimmy before she goes down. No need for a detailed convo beforehand. Originally Posted by strawberry skye

Pretty much this.

I see no problem with having your cover with you and putting it on before the companion you're meeting with is about to go down on you. Personally, I've never taken offense when a gent I'm meeting with expresses a preference for CBJ. It would be pretty neat to see even more openness to using covers for oral in the demimonde.