http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/m...er-police-say/
She probably saved many more lives including her own.
- Guest110923
- 07-26-2015, 08:16 PM
- burkalini
- 07-26-2015, 09:05 PM
Culling the herd.
- newyorkboy
- 07-26-2015, 10:25 PM
That is frightening! Definitely a reason to check reference. Wonder if she did, and if so how his references were?
- Guest110923
- 07-26-2015, 11:32 PM
That is frightening! Definitely a reason to check reference. Wonder if she did, and if so how his references were? Originally Posted by newyorkboyIt was bp so probably not i imagine . If he was going after someone verified im pretty sure there wouldve been a bigger alert on verified boards . This is the first time i heard of it and there were 6 already dead...Scary stuff for sure
- Ms.Lady Y
- 07-27-2015, 07:03 AM
Wow! I'd like to give that provider a hug.
I'm not sure a verified provider that screens would find much on him either. He worked as a security guard and had no record other than speeding tickets.
Seeing brand new guys to the hobby is always scary because you have no one to say "Yes he is okay, he's great, he's a nut case. Every time we see a new client (no references) we put our life on the line. I just wish the new guys understood what we are risking, not LE, not money, not being slapped around, but, actually being killed.
Because of the dangers when meeting a new guy is exactly why I charge more to meet them than someone that has references. I have to spend a lot of time looking and double looking to screen someone with no references. I usually spend about 2 hours looking into them. Not because I care to know your business, cause I really don't, but, because I don't want to end up 6ft under.
So for the new guys, joining here, p411, or any other site without references is not going to get you through the door, screening is still going to be required. If you do happen to come across a provider that will meet you without screening most of us girls won't accept her reference because she doesn't screen, also I hope you make it out with your wallet, no shinny bracelets and your life.
Everyone screen and than screen again, or don't, its your life!
I'm not sure a verified provider that screens would find much on him either. He worked as a security guard and had no record other than speeding tickets.
Seeing brand new guys to the hobby is always scary because you have no one to say "Yes he is okay, he's great, he's a nut case. Every time we see a new client (no references) we put our life on the line. I just wish the new guys understood what we are risking, not LE, not money, not being slapped around, but, actually being killed.
Because of the dangers when meeting a new guy is exactly why I charge more to meet them than someone that has references. I have to spend a lot of time looking and double looking to screen someone with no references. I usually spend about 2 hours looking into them. Not because I care to know your business, cause I really don't, but, because I don't want to end up 6ft under.
So for the new guys, joining here, p411, or any other site without references is not going to get you through the door, screening is still going to be required. If you do happen to come across a provider that will meet you without screening most of us girls won't accept her reference because she doesn't screen, also I hope you make it out with your wallet, no shinny bracelets and your life.
Everyone screen and than screen again, or don't, its your life!
- DesireMeDestiny
- 07-28-2015, 09:07 PM
http://www.myfoxatlanta.com/story/29...medium=twitter
Idk if the link works but I saw this on HLN this morning. Ive been in some scary situations growing up as an escort. I'm sure a lot of us have. Sure, now we screen hard and rely of references. We have the resources to check blacklists and screen via employment. But have you guys ever wondered what we've been through to drive us to be so cautious? I have had some scary things happen but luckily I've always had the right reflexes. When things go awry you have to be aware and realize that it's life or death. Fight back, make a scene, stand up and take charge. We get comfortable seeing everyday normal guys, but there are still MAJOR threats.. We deal with NCNS, time wasters and jerks daily, but this is why we need to be on high alert AT ALL TIMES. Buddy had a "kill kit" in his SUV.
Idk if the link works but I saw this on HLN this morning. Ive been in some scary situations growing up as an escort. I'm sure a lot of us have. Sure, now we screen hard and rely of references. We have the resources to check blacklists and screen via employment. But have you guys ever wondered what we've been through to drive us to be so cautious? I have had some scary things happen but luckily I've always had the right reflexes. When things go awry you have to be aware and realize that it's life or death. Fight back, make a scene, stand up and take charge. We get comfortable seeing everyday normal guys, but there are still MAJOR threats.. We deal with NCNS, time wasters and jerks daily, but this is why we need to be on high alert AT ALL TIMES. Buddy had a "kill kit" in his SUV.
- CryptKicker
- 07-28-2015, 10:13 PM
Merged the two threads- only one discussion thread is needed here.
- DallasRain
- 07-28-2015, 10:36 PM
how sacrey for her...we ladies gotta do what we gotta do to stay safe!