Who is this woman? I had an affair with a co-worker. She is married and has been for 20 years. She approached me and naturally I accepted.
I asked her if I was her first since she has been married, she told me yes. Then over the next few months she let out some little tidbits that I suspected I was not her first. This led me to ask her, was I really her first since you been married. She told me no.
She told me she didn’t want to tell me yes because she didn’t want me to have a bad opinion of her. She has seen 23 guys over the 20 years she has been married, some on a regular basis. She said 5 guys were someone she had deep feeling for and was in love with them, and the other 18 were just fuck buddies she would occasionally see.
The 5 guys, me being one, were sleep overs, sex whenever available, hugging, cuddling, and intimacy. The others were just fuck buddies, no cuddling no stay over, I guest a fuck and go type of thing.
She labeled these guys as P1, her husband, who she loves and does not want to change her situation, P2, the 5 she had deep feeling for and the 18 as P3. This was her philosophy. I still see her from time to time. Who is this woman? How many providers in a similar situation? Her husband is away for 2,3 months at a time she is 44 y/o