I'm 34 yr old, professional male and am too busy for a relationship so I've been thinking about giving the hobby a try. I was out of town for business this weekend and decided to check out ads on backpage. I found a provider and googled her number. She came up on another site, but I couldn't find any reviews (I was searching on my phone, which is less than ideal). I decided to give her a call and see if she was available. I called in the morning and she was in the process of changing hotels and asked me to call later.
After some meetings, I was finished working for the day and called her around 4. She told me she was available and told me what hotel she was at. I was completely unfamiliar with the town and told her I needed the address. She said she'd text it to me I didn't get it, so I sent her a text about 15 min later and she responded with the general location of the hotel. I found the address and told her I'd be there in 15 min.
When I got to the hotel, I called her to tell her I was there. She said she was getting ready to shower and to give her 15 or 20 min. I said okay and waited in the car. 30 minutes passed and I hadn't heard from her. I sent her a text and asked if we were still on. She simply sent back "Yes". Another 15 minutes passed and I sent her another text and said that if she was too busy to see me that evening, no worries but I didn't want to sit in the car all night waiting.
She responded almost immediately and said that she was sorry, she was ready now and that if I'd come back, she'd see me right away. I told her I was still outside the hotel. She sent me a message back and said, "Wow, they usually don't wait. ARE YOU THE POLICE? Must be!" I sent her a text and said that no, I was just a regular guy who wanted to hang out. She apologized and sent me a msg back telling me to park behind the hotel. I was already a little freaked out and nervous, but I drove to the back of the hotel and told her I was parked there and described my little SUV. She never responded and after 10 more minutes I took off, afraid that I was going to get either robbed or carjacked or something.
Now, I don't really think she had any ill intentions, aside from maybe giving me the run around while she saw other clients, but I'm wondering if I should have done something differently. I'm sure I made a dozen mistakes, but as I said, I've never made any attempts to see a provider and didn't really know what to do aside from never mention money or sex.
So tear me apart and tell me everything I did wrong so I never do it again.