Contacting Providors

In the past I have only reached out to providers who have ads listed , then after we meet if I need them in the future I don't check for ads I just contact them

Is it OK to contact providers who do NOT have a current ad listed under Provider Ads or Weekend Lineup?

I wouldn't wanna be contacted if I don't have any ads up, I might be traveling, dealing with family, or such. There's always a reason why some don't post ads because they aren't available.

Not every provider uses this site as there number one. Some use P411 or some rather email. I personally don't mind it especially if we have already spend time together. Plus sending a simple text message or an email to see if she's available it's not bad. ( no calling or texting back to back) again in my opinion...

If I have seen a provider, have her number and have an interest in seeing her again...I will send a text greeting that also asks if she remembers me. I only send it once.

If I get no response, I leave it alone.

If I get a response and she remembers me, we go from there.

No response to me means...she's either not available or didn't keep my number, so if she doesn't know who I am, no need to respond. After a couple days of no response, I'll just send a P411 request.

Anyway...seems to work for me and I've never had any issues.

The really great ones do not need to advertise. Check here and P411 for a Showcase/ Profile and when they last logged in to their account. If it has been some time since the last log-in, they are likely taking a break. If they no longer have an active Showcase/ Profile, then don't waste your and her time.

An inquiry never hurts with or without an ad. I live here but am mostly gone though

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( no calling or texting back to back) again in my opinion... Originally Posted by Azebella_amor

texting back to back is my favorite.

I usually post ads regularly, but if I don't it's not necessarily because I'm unavailable. I think if your inquiry is thoughtful, especially if it provides ample notice, things should be fine. Also, when you meet a new lady, you can ask her how she prefers to be contacted to set up future dates.

Thank you for your comments. I too only contact providers with ads UNLESS I've seen them before and we are both ok about checking availability. But there's a lot of showcases also without ads . I guess the best way to judge is like Oralist said to check activity or last logged time in .. All great responses though Thank you again.

All responses are great, when I don't advertise its because I'm unavailable but everyone is different. I don't hobby much but yea a text would be OK lol...

PMs and emails are okay any time with me. If you choose to text you need to mention your handle and when exactly you are trying to meet. 9 times out of 10 I don't reply to 'hello' 'are you available?' If I don't know who it is. Properly introduce yourself, and available or not I will at least reply. If we have met before, texting is fine. I prefer texts over calls.

I usually only hit up ladies with current ads. I have a few I will text directly but I do stick with only one. If I get no reply I leave it alone. I have found the direct text most often doesn't work - I usually get a reply but it is often "I'm not in town."

I don't always post Weekly and Weekend ads but I wouldn't mind if someone inquired. Especially if it is within the times my showcase states I am available.

I had someone bring this to my attention a few weeks ago....
I told the young man that Eccie only allows is to run an ad twice a week ....I also told him to communicate with the provider because of this ...Alot of Gentlemen are in the lost because of this. ..
We as providers will probably have more appts if you at least try to contact. ...

PMs and emails are okay any time with me. If you choose to text you need to mention your handle and when exactly you are trying to meet. 9 times out of 10 I don't reply to 'hello' 'are you available?' If I don't know who it is. Properly introduce yourself, and available or not I will at least reply. Originally Posted by anita

This!!!!