Is it really this dead in Memphis?

Memphis feels like a ghost town. Most of the fakes feel more like ghosts of what used to be lol. Oh for the time when there was a place to go meet like minded people with out having to wade through waves of scams and crap. No ISO, I know I know. This is not an ISO but more of i'm getting tired of searching lol
What other websites have you been searching? If you are only using ECCIE, it could feel that way due to limitations.
Lol I dunno where to look. USA guide is ok, but man it’s hard to know who to trust