When is too much hassle, too much hassle?

When do you give up on a young provider and just throw in the towel? It seems that I have spent 5-6 times the effort that I get back in services from most of our new and fresh talent. I won't go into too much detail with this weekend's fiasco other than to say that after 35+ texts from this 19yo, not only did I not get to see her or have any plans of doing so, but do not think that I should give her another chance. Started on Friday, asking for a noonish appointment on Saturday, gave her references to contact which I don't think she did. She even advertises that she is available on weekends, one of the few that do. Cleared my work, got ready, including a little blue pill, on time with everything I did according to her request. Her incall was only 5 minutes away, but she did not know that. Time of appointment, nothing, two hours later, she says she had a blow up with her ex and no longer in the mood, how about later or Sunday, okay before noon she wants, and begins asking the same stupid questions about how much time I want, then no, about 1, then oh, she just woke up, then 2, then because I let 9 minutes go by while I was in the shower, she says WTF??. Finally she answers one of my calls, she has left her incall and is now back home. and still wants to meet "later"...I told her this was too much hassle, just to forget about me. She needs reviews and was going to give me a special for a review, and I had decided to break my reviews silence, but fuck that now!

This same scenario has been played out with 5 other young providers on eccie and 1 on BP...there has got to be a better way to teach these girls what it takes to make a successful business fly. It is no wonder that there is no middle class in this hobby, either they are "top flight" or "bottom of the barrel"...and I guess that my patience with such ignorance has worn thin. To be totally forthcoming, I have gotten the same runaround from top flight as well, but have eventually met them. Only 1 of the last 4 has been worth a revisit, though.

Good luck guys, I may be retiring from all this "excitement" I just have to decide if the pain is worth the gain, if the screwin I get is worth the screwin I'm gettin...if the bird and the bush have swapped values...

Where's that civie's phone number, and my bottle of moonshine?

Is it possible that the "new young girls" are looking for guys their own age and don't
realize they don't exised here. I think it takes a few years for it to sink in that they
are going to be dealing with guys much older then they are if they plan on making
a good living at this. Don't no how old you are g but I know I could'nt handle breaking
in a 19 yr old. Way to much hasssel.

Definately sounds totally unprofessional. You gave it more effort than I would have. I think CC is on to something here about the age thing. Some of these young girls, say 18-20, are often on the fence about doing this professionally. They are dipping their toes in the hobby, but they still have strings from the past i.e. current or ex boyfriends, family ties, ect, that create conflicts for them. Plus they have little experience dealing with older men, who are, let's face it- often unattractive, overweight, socially awkward, and sexually frustrated- at least by the standards they are used to.

My best hobby experiences have been with girls in their mid to late 20s, who have made the commitment to doing this full time and have grown accustomed to the travel and the clientele and yet, retain the glow and enthusiasm of youth. I have no interest in "breaking in" anyone. Hell, if I had the patience to chase a girl around for hours trying to convince her its a good idea to take me home with her I wouldn't have to indulge in the hobby.

Hell, if I had the patience to chase a girl around for hours trying to convince her its a good idea to take me home with her I wouldn't have to indulge in the hobby. Originally Posted by Caligula

Another good reason to stay away from titty bars too.

I am sorry to hear this. Such a great guy to lose.

When do you give up on a young provider and just throw in the towel? It seems that I have spent 5-6 times the effort that I get back in services from most of our new and fresh talent. I won't go into too much detail with this weekend's fiasco other than to say that after 35+ texts from this 19yo, not only did I not get to see her or have any plans of doing so, but do not think that I should give her another chance. Started on Friday, asking for a noonish appointment on Saturday, gave her references to contact which I don't think she did. She even advertises that she is available on weekends, one of the few that do. Cleared my work, got ready, including a little blue pill, on time with everything I did according to her request. Her incall was only 5 minutes away, but she did not know that. Time of appointment, nothing, two hours later, she says she had a blow up with her ex and no longer in the mood, how about later or Sunday, okay before noon she wants, and begins asking the same stupid questions about how much time I want, then no, about 1, then oh, she just woke up, then 2, then because I let 9 minutes go by while I was in the shower, she says WTF??. Finally she answers one of my calls, she has left her incall and is now back home. and still wants to meet "later"...I told her this was too much hassle, just to forget about me. She needs reviews and was going to give me a special for a review, and I had decided to break my reviews silence, but fuck that now!

This same scenario has been played out with 5 other young providers on eccie and 1 on BP...there has got to be a better way to teach these girls what it takes to make a successful business fly. It is no wonder that there is no middle class in this hobby, either they are "top flight" or "bottom of the barrel"...and I guess that my patience with such ignorance has worn thin. To be totally forthcoming, I have gotten the same runaround from top flight as well, but have eventually met them. Only 1 of the last 4 has been worth a revisit, though.

Good luck guys, I may be retiring from all this "excitement" I just have to decide if the pain is worth the gain, if the screwin I get is worth the screwin I'm gettin...if the bird and the bush have swapped values...

Where's that civie's phone number, and my bottle of moonshine? Originally Posted by giteneny

I am sorry to hear this. Such a great guy to lose. Originally Posted by Sami

Hey Hot Stuff!

Sorry I have missed you the last times you have been back in the area!

Me Too, Sounds like you need some special time. I am truly sorry about the struggles that some give you guy's. On the other side of the coin we get it too.

So when you meet a good one, guy or gal it makes it worth it. I know you guys are limited around there, why I don't know? Every Time I have been there I have met some wonderful guys.
SNL always said you guy's are the best!! Very True Very True

. . . Every Time I have been there I have met some wonderful guys.
SNL always said you guy's are the best!! Very True Very True Originally Posted by Sami

Sami, on behalf of all the good guys in AR, come visit us. Personally, I'll give you a great AR welcome!

Sorry for the hijack, Git. Now back to our regular programming . . .

Me Too, Sounds like you need some special time. I am truly sorry about the struggles that some give you guy's. On the other side of the coin we get it too. Originally Posted by Sami

Sounds like Sami to the rescue. Good time for a visit?

CCrider... It's sounding that way?

Hey man im sorry this happen to you, i want to say your not alone i had a simliar thing happen to me this past weekend i gave up after the second try and told her thanks sorry i bothered you.I may not tell a lady my age but i do tell her what age group im in if that a problem i rather her to say no we are not compabible or go to he** or something dont just keep leading me on.I know im new here just my thoughts.

Hey man im sorry this happen to you, i want to say your not alone i had a simliar thing happen to me this past weekend i gave up after the second try and told her thanks sorry i bothered you.I may not tell a lady my age but i do tell her what age group im in if that a problem i rather her to say no we are not compabible or go to he** or something dont just keep leding me on.I know im new her just my thoughts. Originally Posted by RECON1BN

I make it a point to tell all the ladies I contact my age, height and size in the first
PM. If they PM me back then it's game on, well, maybe.

I have had some so/so experiences with younger girls and some GREAT experiences. I had a 19 y/o SB for awhile who was awesome (just sometimes scheduling was difficult). I also saw a 21 y/o testing the waters BP escort a few times (scheduling was sometimes difficult), but I hung in there. She quit the Provider business and is currently making me one extremely happy SD.

Sami baby, I sure do like your Avatar, maybe if you got a little left after your Giteiney
rescue you could back up over here to me.