I try to shave at least the night before an evening visit. There are always a few nicks and abrasions that need time to heal. Maybe I'll do a light pass over with a rotating electric razor, but even then you need to be careful.
I have been curious about this as well and asked my ATF when I saw her last. She said shaved!!! Apparently it has to do with hygeine where a guy who goes to the trouble of peeling the grapes is more likely to be clean than some sasquatch looking dude. So I tried it and it feels weird but nice once you get used to it just my HO
I just shaved and it was tedious. I hope she appreciates the effort like I appreciate a smooth pussy but you don't hear the ladies complaining too much about it.
Both are great, as long as the lochness monster isn't fighting your trouser snake I love shaved. This way when I'm rubbing & putting to good use all of the extra saliva it's smooth as ever