SO IS THIS WHAT IT IS COMING TO NOW?

Please share (at least with the other ladies) the contact details of this scumbag. Treating others like that has no place here. There's all sorts of reasons people are in the hobby, I believe there's a group of folks here who want nothing more than to fuck other people over.

This is what multiple providers told me:

There are many guys on here and OH2 that think they are the kings of hobbyists/reviewers. Especially vurnerable are the new providers in the welcome wagon and even the ones not on Eccie yet that would like to be for advertising purposes. Therefore, if you do not do BBFS with them, let them overstay their time, give them an extreme discount, ect., then this self professed god of this world that says his word is gold, will threaten to post a negative review of you and you are going to get slapped with a bad rep out of the gate.

It is especially difficult due to the newer ladies not having access to the ladies only forums to not only see if those guys are actually bad apples, but be able to alert others as well. So sometimes, to make a good first impression, they will go beyond their level of comfortable limits to appease the king of reviewers. In most cases, those girls may have other reviewers afterwards and even stay for a bit, but ultimately tho, they leave the business never to be heard from again.

Sometimes I think there is something in the water but you have to just move past the jerks and do what you do.

Name the douchebag

Sometimes I think there is something in the water but you have to just move past the jerks and do what you do. Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

There is nothing in the water. It is just part of the "hobby" world. There are "scumbag" hobbyists and "scumbag" providers as well. Being involved in this "lifestyle" you're going to have to deal with the occasional bullshit that inherently comes with it. As men we're going to have to deal with the occasional provider who NCNS, is terrible w/ handling business and communication, steals money, lies, has misleading pics, gives shitty service, etc. As women you're going to have to deal with the occasional jerk who cancels, asks for BBFS, tries to get incentives and freebies, makes idle threats, has stalker-ish tendencies, gets aggressive, etc. As much as we would like it to, it's not going to change and there is no way around it. You just have to be prepared and know how to handle it when it comes.

...you have to just move past the jerks and do what you do. Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

^^^^ This.

Leelo, you’re a sweet lady and it is unfortunate that you’re being threatened. It is just sad that some hobbiests think that since they have shit tons of reviews that they can wield their review count as a sword of compliance to force a provider to bend to their will. Sad. If a guy is displeased with your (or any provider) service or offerings, just move on. If it needs to go in a review, then so be it - that’s what the reviews are for. However, no need to beat the hobby cave man chest with power play manipulation and threats. That’s childish and this is an adult hobby. We’d all be a lot better off if everyone behaved with respect and dignity. My $0.02.

If she's not down for being a raunchy pse harlot with another consenting adult, if she's a sweet gfe sexy cuddler, if she's a nonkisser or cbj only lady, or she only wants to do it with the lights on and minimum 3 monkeys in the chandelier throwing gummy bears at you... Then she's deserving of the respect she's due. Children, selfish turds, and truly unruly manipulative ball sacks should stick to porn at home so fun loving gentlemen can have fun with who they match up with.

I am so so sorry your being treated like this babe... I really hate that some of these guys have the nerve to treat ladies with so little respect! Guys this is not POF, Facebook or any other type of dating site... This is a hobby and supposed to be fun! SO not cool! Leelo please keep your head up and know your beautiful and deserve so much better than to have to deal with douchebags like that!

Please name the guys who did this to you, here and in the ladies only forums. More importantly, here, so that even the ladies that do not have access to those private forums can see who they are.

As an idea, perhaps a “sticky” can be created for the ladies forum that provides guidance as to what actions can and should be taken when they encounter these asshats and their shenanigans.

2nd time this week ,
I get the same bs but now I'm being threatened if I don't respond in 2 days a
horrible review will go up of me blah, blah, blah..
Personally I could careless but when u give me a Ultimatum that's where I draw the F'N line , Honestly I'm sick of it, we know what this site is about but yet some act like this is Facebook...
I will not sit back and continue to let this Negative stuff play out Especially when It has to do with my Time and Effort...
I will be taking time off to Update my Screening and will be Updating my Email - Phone Num.

Originally Posted by leelo_huna

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2626586

If it didn't come from an ECCIE PM you have no way to know if it's really from that person. Anybody can be anybody thru text or email. I'm assuming this is the incident you are talking about.

but if you are in this adventure for a while then it will happen. This type of activity has been going on since the Delphi boards-30 years ago. Best thing to do is not respond to it, and drop a note to the staff here if it came from eccie. If it didn;t then they really cannot do much about it but you can let the other women know about it in the private area.

you have good reviews and a good reputation here so do not let this ruin your time. There are a LOT of jerks out there right now. both here and on OH2. Do the best to stay away from them and when you do run into them then let others know.

Best to you.

Leloo_, you have been around long enough to know that there are a lot of stupid people on here. It's up to you ladies to watch out for each other since eccie won't do it. You ladies should call the stupid men out like the lady did that wanted help getting on p411. I believe he was an eccie ambassador lol

I've heard a lot about certain reviewers that push the boundaries because they think they are special.

Curious who they are?