Amber Reed cancels again at the last minute...

Normally, I would not post this type of information, but in fairness to all the hobbyists here in the North Florida area, I feel the need to make this post.

Amber Reed has a problem with cancelling confirmed appointments at the last minute. She has a stellar reputation for BCD activities, but TCB (Taking Care of Business) is one area where she has a problem. She seems to do this on a routine basis and did it again yesterday and today. I know of 4 guys (including myself) who had CONFIRMED appointments with details to include time and place. She backed out at the last minute. The excuse I received was that she had 2 last minute cancellations, and she couldn't justify the expense to keep my appointment. Okay, I get it. Guys cancel or no show. It happens all the time, but it is totally unprofessional to back out of confirmed appointments just b/c you aren't seeing the number of guys you expected. Do doctors go home at 10 am if their first two patients of the day didn't show up? Of course not. If they did go home, they wouldn't be practicing medicine much longer.

Here are some of the comments others have made about this problem:

Is it just me or does this happen to you guys too? I've booked with her 7 times but I've only seen her once. She always cancels at the last minute. I had an appt with her tonight which she confirmed with incall details this morning. I get all the way there before I see a p411 message from her that was sent 1 hour before the appointment. I had a great time the one time I saw her but this is ridiculous. Sorry for the rant.

Did it to me and never even bothered to give me notice, a reason, or an apology. I hear she is great but don't drive along way!

Welcome XXXXXXX to the club. We had a rant on here before about her . I see her one time and it was perfect then the driving and the no show no call start after about 600 wasted mi I wrote her off . She show no respect and feel no guild for here actions.

Yeah guys it really sucks. She's awesome when you actually get to see her. I won't be setting another appointment with her though.

Too bad she is a flake, I agree with XXXXX that this should be posted where all ECCIE members can see it and be forewarned. Thanks to all the posters who wrote about how they have had this kind of bad experience with her. Greatly appreciated. I was going to schedule but I think I'll wait and see if she can get a more professional attitude.

As you can see, this is not coming from one dis-satisfied client/potential client. It is coming from the community at large. Again, I'm not posting this to harm. I'm posting to warn/alert fellow hobbyists. She has a history of doing this, so keep this in mind when booking with her. Maybe if Amber sees this, she will alter her practices.

I am really sorry that has been your experience, I have not had that problem with her, and I have seen her many times.

Not just his experience but at least 5 other guys that have said something. It's becoming quite clear to me that many of us are afraid to post anything negative because we may hear some shit about it from other members or even receive threats of blacklisting from the provider herself. Cpalmson is right, he has the reputation now to take on this kind of thing if it happens. I'm glad you were able to connect with her every time you wanted I hear she's fantastic.

Don't get me wrong about her. Her reviews and reputation for service are off the chart. That is the reason I booked with her. She was a MUST see for me. I arranged my whole schedule in order to see her. I'm a busy person. My schedule is hectic. It takes effort for me to schedule appointments. I have never had a problem with a girl backing out b/c a few of her other clients cancelled. Hell, I've seen touring providers who come here even though I'm the only one who pre-booked. To stand up 4 or 5 guys b/c of 2 cancellations, really? Do I still want to see her? Hell yeah. Will I see her? Depends. I know this, I won't pre-book or make special arrangements. If she is already in the area and I'm available, sure why not. But no special effort from me. The way I look at it she lost probably lost $800-1000 of sure cash.

Cpal,

Not sure what happened. I thought she started to get her rep back then all these cancellations. I know the headache of last min cancellation sux but I wouldn't write her off. Hopefully she will make it up to you. Only time will tell.

Rrabbit6926

I've set up 4 different appointments and all 4 she has no showed. All 4 were confirmed the night before and phone number and hotel info was given for her to be just a no show and cell phone goes straight to voicemail. The last time with her saying I didn't confirm, even though I had initiated the confirmation. Since then she is no longer returning emails the whole month of January.

My response to this post is yes I have had to cancel last min for various resaons which I always try and make up for..1: I have another job (escorting is not my full time job..shocker I know),2:I'm also in school this semester so I usually don't know if its a mandatory class until the day of,3:I also have 2 roommates who are not capable of taking care of themselves (if I have seen you then you already know this) and last yes other things come up (just in Jan 3 friends have died) or weather is bad and lots of car problems..if you know me already you know I never see more than 2 people in a days time because appointment go longer and I hate to feel rushed or make the other person feel like I'm watching the clock especially since I talk a lot,so yes when one appointment cancels it makes it hard to justify driving 5 hours away...you cplamson are the reason I had to last min cancel when I woke up at 5am to check my emails and leave I got an email from you saying that you wanted to make sure I was checking in the night before and not the morning of because if I checked in the morning of it would be awkward and rushed so you were not sure if that would work...why does it matter when I get there if I'm ready by the time you show up? I had already made my in call location to the place you wanted it just to make you happy...as far as the comparison between an escort and Dr who does not show up is way off,as an escort I don't get paid salary and no one is covering my expenses when people cancel.I also talked to you through email and text 4 hours before our appointment not to mention the past two times I have been in PC I stayed over just for you because you could only see me in the early morning,which you backed out last min!!

I do my best to try and make up any appointments missed or canceled unless there are other problems!
I also do not appreciate you telling people that I'm coming to PC I do not post on eccie a lot due to just anyone being able to see this information...if I want them to know I will email them!

Am I going to need some popcorn?

Am I going to need some popcorn? Originally Posted by hwj32

I doubt it.
The OP is not a douche and Amber ain't crazy. You must have 1 of the 2 to validate popcorn.