CIM Providers

I was going to ask this in the Men's thread, but I decided that I would like the women to just tell me. And I don't know how to search for "CIM" because the search engine on here says that "CIM" is too short a word

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<~~~~~Gotta love a good sloppy bj with an explosive ending!!!

It's a shame when it goes anywhere else.

Done that before, here you go: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=756478&highlight=

Good to know

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You can use urbandictionary.com as well babes, it helps!

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hell yeahhhhhhhhh!!!

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Damn. This is looking like a good list!

This IS looking like a lovely list. Do you girls love CIM in your civie life also? Like a girlfriend who loves cum or is it in the realm of being a provider? I sometimes wonder the difference or lack there of of a provider's private sex life versus providing, and what the differences are? Like I've heard pornstars talk about how different they are in private versus on camera.

I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I think I'm fairly consistent in how I behave professional and personally. To speak specifically to this thread, I am a fan of enjoying the finish. I wouldn't do something professionally unless I found it to be a sexual positive (like CIM) or neutral (like FUYA), because doing the stuff that isn't naturally in my wheelhouse is when things get psychologically draining and the work feels yucky. Additionally, there's nothing I've tried for the first time as a provider that I didn't try first with someone in my personal life.

As far as how I'm perceived, I'm probably hotter with fuck-buddies than clients since chemistry is always going to be high (the ones who don't make it past the first cut don't reach FB status). I'm also probably a lot more fun because I know them well enough to know what buttons they have and how to hard to push them. Then again, an older married man who doesn't hobby often might gain more utility out me as a provider even if my performance can't naturally be as awesome as it is with personal friends.

To speak more broadly about work vs. play, it totally depends on the pairing. I tend to date more vanilla guys, more by circumstance than by choice. It actually makes me sorta sad whenever that happens. So with my LTRs I've shied away from the kinkier stuff just because it's not something they enjoy. I won't sluttily beg for a facial not because I wouldn't kill for a facial but because I know it'd throw-off their focus and they'd be struggling to do it. True story, my last three boyfriends (2006-2012) didn't like blowjobs. I mean, they liked them, but they never asked for them and I would have to initiate pretty aggressively to get my fill.

My fuck-buddies are usually more adventurous ones that I'm able to explore my kink with, but my drive varies among them quite a bit. Some are great for a romp every once in awhile, but once the pop pops, I'm washing my face and throwing my clothes back on. Others can pull me through 10 rounds over an afternoon/evening/morning and have me wanting more than what I can physically handle. The one trick ponies are usually focused on just the kink and the marathon men are an awesome vanilla/kink swirl.

Just wanted to say I enjoy your posts JennLolli... I'd love to have a drink with you some time I've been a little quiet lately due to real world job demands, but I've appreciated your intelligent and experienced perspective on many threads.

And yes... just wanted to throw my hat into this ring. I think it's interesting how some guys don't want your mouth anywhere near them once they pop coz it's so sensitive, then sometimes there is that thing where you keep it in your mouth, ever so softly suckling while it gets softer and softer but drawing out the moment of ecstasy.

I can't believe I used to hate BJ's when I first was sexually active. Now it's like, put some good music on and it's an artistic expression for me!!

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Why, yes sir e bob I would!!