Findom is one of the least understood aspects of the fetish world. It has the appeal of being very easy ("Give me all your money! Now!"), but it's really much more complicated than that. It takes a lot of work, a lot of time, and there is a lot of competition. If you're interested in more practical information (not a how to, but people to watch), Twitter is your best friend. I would recommend looking up #GiveYourMoneyToWomen @BardotSmith @YeoshinLourdes @LiteralPorn @THEBOSSBRAT and @VioletDoll to see how they do it.
You can't copy them, though, as you'd be called out and flayed.
It has ties to general humiliation, body-part worship, tease and denial, psychological domination, and lots and lots of politics.
Most people who attempt it are fucking horrible at it, and most guys who think they like it have no idea what they really want from the world.
Originally Posted by BiancaBonVivant
BiancaBonVivant,
excellent info!!!
wrt the bolded sentence, i've seen that attitude in various aspects of intimate encounters, fetishes, BDSM, D/s, etc.
at least SweetDulce asked the question.
one of my pet peeves is a question/statement like ...
"hey, what is <insertFetishOrActivity>?? it sounds like fun and something i want to get into."
research, research, research, and then
practice, practice, practice!!
and then delites, delites, delites