Attraction from drama threads?

There are several Providers and Hobbyists who use Eccie as a venue to spill vitriol. I don't need to point them out - simply go to Co-Ed and you can quickly decide for yourself who fits this description.
My poll isn't about if it's "right", "wrong" or "justified"... but I feel it does tell you a lott about the person (Prov or Hob). My personal view is, "If someone is willing to be this vocal and abusive here - on a public forum where they are trying to induce interactions - why would I ever wish to interact or encounter them in real life?"
But, what's your view?

Well. Here is thread #3 lol.

And you had to go and create a thread in about the drama in COED which will become another drama filled COED thread.


I'm sure many are thanking you for this new instigation.

TJ,
I never put up unkind words about people. I'm known by many Dallas providers as a very nice, respectful and generous man. You and I have even had some civil PM's when you arrived.

The POLL I put up is to offer opinion on this matter of "How does everyone view these ongoing's here? and how does that affect their interest in booking..."

This is a survey you and others should be interested in- but is not "Targeted". There are many who have created "argument and attack threads" before you; and many after - you didn't invent this tactic nor have it trademarked and copy-written as a way of increasing your business.

Now, that being said - if you feel this is something you need to comment on; I would advise that you re-read the matter. I am pointing out, that this definitely goes both ways; and vitriol posts by Hobbyists can have the exact same impact on a Providers willingness to accept an offer to meet-up.

I've clearly stated my opinion on the matter. "Yup! Active battle argument threads are a (popcorn eating) fun thing to read, but to me it points out (easily) those I would never see in person". Because to me, anyone (hobbyist or Provider) who argues like this on a thread - doesn't take the Hobby seriously; and would just as easily spout "real world info" in an "outing" opportunity.

That's my own - personal opinion. And, I'd like to POLL the opinion of others.

Exactly why I am out of here and shutting down. You can’t even post simple true
Comments on here without someone jumping on it to personally attack
They drool over the fake reviews and bs and attack true well non verifiable facts
Best wishes to all the drama knights and princesses

AG,
I like you - though we've never met. My hobby Provider friends speak highly of you.

That being said - I'm here as a Member / Hobbyist...

You're here as that too - and a MOD, which (to me) means two things:

• As long as people aren't breaking the rules - you should respect their ability to post
• When they break the rules - you should take appropriate action

If you'd like to address the rules on "personal attacks" and what's been going on in co-ed; and how apparently MODs have turned a blind eye - hey, I'm all ears...

Exactly why I am out of here and shutting down. You can’t even post simple true
Comments on here without someone jumping on it to personally attack
They drool over the fake reviews and bs and attack true well non verifiable facts
Best wishes to all the drama knights and princesses Originally Posted by lipsandhipster

All the more reason people like me would say "Don't go"...

We don't make a place better by leaving, we make it better by "being a light". By showing intelligent opinions and by reacting civilly to opinions and comments.

I think that many people agree with this, and while remaining silent - cast their non-verbal vote by avoiding "problem children"... but, I wanted to find out via poll.

Your actions on ECCIE, on any Thread or post in general say a lot about you. And this holds for all social media.

Okay I will just come on here and say hi

Okay I will just come on here and say hi Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Civility is always welcome from everyone Tara. Thank you for making a visit.

Hi there Tara baby. Super Hottie
Keep them alll jealous

Hi there Tara baby. Super Hottie
Keep them alll jealous Originally Posted by lipsandhipster

Show us a hot face pic of hers and I'll really become a fan like yourself

I'm not into the drama scene and have zero desire to interact one on one with those that do/are. We are adults with differing views and opinions. I cannot understand the constant combative behavior that a lot of members dish out. I fall into the "yikes, I'm out" category for sure.

Hi there Tara baby. Super Hottie
Keep them alll jealous Originally Posted by lipsandhipster

Thank you
And always!