A question for the providers

Youngest hobbyist you've seen or would see?
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I'm not a provider, but I think LE pretty much determines the limits here. "Soliciting" is a misdemeanor. "Statuatory rape" on the other hand, is a felony. That reminds me, and this is off topic, but you know how you hear in the news about some female teacher going to prison for getting it on with her student? I dont understand it. I remember my teachers and some of them were hot and were the inspiration for some wonderful masturbation. Had they given me "some", I would have counted myself the luckiest boy on the planet, and would have kept it a secret. I imagine their is lot of that which actyaly goes on but the persons involved use discretion.

For some reason, Van Halen's "hot for teacher" is playing in my head right now.
Hello, mrs. Robinson?

A curious thing, one does read a number of ads where the provider states "I only see guys over 30/40 etc". I wonder why that is. Ladies, couldyou enlighten us?

Good question Cunn, didn't mean to hijack your post.
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  • fawn
  • 06-12-2010, 07:53 AM
The youngest I have seen was 24 and 26....but of course I didn't know his age until he arrived.....The thing I didn't like most was when I touched him I could tell his body hadn't matured yet...and it made me think of my son....so now if you walk in my door and you look like a baby...I will turn you away...so I would say the youngest I would see now would be 30..
I just read all the advertisements and see the 30 year old cutoff and wondered why that is. I know maturity is an issue and what not but some of us like myself who are younger than that are not immature, at least I don't think I am.

One of my co-workers who is a hobbyist, who is in his mid-thirties mentioned to me that if you think about it... being in the hobby is almost cheaper than dating. If you're looking for that connection for just a brief moment in time in your busy schedule, he said "then the hobby is what your looking for". Because with dating and all that other stuff, you've got to wine and dine and go through several dates to "click" or "feel the spark" before you get your "release".

I know we all get judged by certain things because many others like us have acted immature, but I just wondered why there was always a cut-off. I've always stuck with an AMP, because I haven't pulled the trigger with an indy yet.
im 20 and i always get dirty looks from older providers but its just not my fault... i am 20 and have been GFE and Nude Tantric Massages for almost 2 years now....by the way what is AMP?
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The youngest gentleman that I have ever dated was 25! Even though the date went okay, after he left, I second guessed myself on why I even saw him in the first place! He was a nice young man, but he just reminded me of my oldest son! Plus, we really didn't have anything in common........I like classic rock and he likes Ludacris! LOL!
19yrs old.. like men of different races.. amazingly their money spends exactly the same as older gentlemen.. usually they are so nervous they pop relatively quickly and because of the pressure..if they don't pop fast..they are much more respectful then many older guys because they don't want to be blacklisted..they know the stigma that comes with being young....

19 or 55 yrs old..the money is green, spends the same and generally the same experiences
MaxiMilyen's Avatar
Some of us care about the experience as much, and in some cases more so than the money. If it's uncomfortable, why subject yourself to that if ya don't have to or want to. Some of us are pickier about our friends than others. A lot of us prefer the 30+ for various reasons....such as maturity, experience and common interests that come with age. Although I must say that I have 2 regular friends I spend time with that are below the age of 30 (not much and it took them a while to convince me to see them...LOL) that have turned out to be wonderful clients, so never say never.
oh im sorry,,i didn't know we were suppose to provide reasons why seeing guys of all ages is cool..or not cool.

well for me.. guys in the 20-30yr old range usually can go more then once, they "fuck" and choose not to "make love", they are often more respectful about rules due to the hassles from others.. I have had more older guys 45 yrs + try to slip condoms off, try to get discounts, and more over in general be more difficult then younger ones.. because they have the excuse it "helps the sensation"..

I guess im lucky, i can find something to chit chat about with guys of all ages and races.. apparently i am easily adaptable to the situation i chose to put myself in..oh well.. its not hard to enjoy someones company no matter their age..

Older guys have their perks.. there are more then a few that have difficulty hummm getting it or keeping it up.. which leads to easier work for the lady. Not all.. there are plenty of older guys that can fuck your brains out and then some.. but there are more then a few as well that have troubles.. which leads to less pounding, less stress on a girls goods and thus less effort/work and strain..

i mean guys if you were a provider/woman.. what would you really want.. a guy that can pound you the whole hour..making you orgasm time and time again..wearing your holes out.. and pays you 250 or a guy that struggles to get it up, keep it up.. keeps going soft with the condom on.. you suck it for maybe 10 minutes tops..chit chat for 30 minutes..then he licks for another 10.. and tries sex fruitlessly for 10 minutes.. and pays 250.. i mean seriously..

personally..ya..im a whore.. i like the guy that gets and takes the most bang for his buck.. so whether 19 or 89.. if you come to fuck and get off..no matter how long..its all good..and yep..the money spends the same and I get to have a fun more enjoyable time
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Cunninlynguist,

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The Original Jenna of Dallas
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Lauren Lane's Avatar
Usually late 20's early is the lowest I am comfortable with. Since I recently dated a late 20 yr old in civie life I figured same difference. When I had someone helping me with my booking awhile ago, I had a client who I could tell he was young by his demeanor, face and body and then I glanced over at the side table where his license was lying....He still had the sideways picture. I jumped up and looked closer at the year of birth, whew he had not changed it yet. He was about 23 24. But no more that young.
I dont know about age but if you stay around this lifestyle very long and you ever use craiglist girls you will have young ones at your door.Before I came to eccie i had on 2 occasions have girls come to my door that was no more than 16 yrs old.and i sent them away,but how many guys would not do that.I had this girl i seen twice she looked at least 18 and she gave me no problems but what was strange was the only time you could get in touch with her was before 8am and after 3pm and i got to thinking thats odd,so I thought this girl must be in high school.so I questioned her about it ad she admitted that she was and that she had deadbeat parents and that she was taking care of her siblinds and I cut off all contact with her and never heard from her again.You have to be careful
  • Bliss
  • 06-13-2010, 01:35 PM
Older men have their escort etiquette down and are so much more respectful. When I was new, I didn't have an age limit and the younger guys were always trying to short the donation or rip me off. A lot of them acted like I should be all giddy about having a younger man in my bed....whatever. Older men are interested in mutual satisfaction with passion and intimacy, which is what I prefer too.

I do have a regular in Nashville that was 19 the first time I saw him. He's Korean and looks like he is 16. I was reluctant the first time, but his references were stellar. This kid is respectful, generous, and has his etiquette down. He loves the older providers and wants to be "taught." I dig that about him.
Hmmm, had a guy in hi early 20's visit me, for the most part it was okay. They tend to freak out or become embarrassed if they cum to quick.

The older gents seem okay if they cum quick. I think they were happy to get up for more than five minutes. They are more nicer, comfortable in their skin and more talkative.

Just be respectful, don't force anything and you should be fine.....