A REAL gfe...

This isn’t an encounter report, though I probably should do one as well, but recently I had an appointment with a cool provider. First time I saw her we just clicked. Her reviews show she just has that “it” that makes her easy to be around.

Anyway, second meeting, I show up and she had just woken up! Hair a mess, no make up, etc. Still beautiful. Side note: I saw that Aprill just did a make up free photo shoot, also beautiful.

Anyway, she was panicky and apologizing and what not, and I wanted to take a shower before hand anyway (I prefer to do that, especially during the summer months) and so we just rolled with it. Both hopped in the shower, cleaned each other up, and then off to fun. Her other roommate (also in the biz) was walking around while we were all naked and it was glorious. It reminded me of college and some of those friends with benefits.

We “buy” a fantasy and an experience, and quite frankly that was a good one. It made for a real life scenario. Most of the girls couldn’t pull that off and most likely the typical hobbyist would have been a dick about it, but something to be said for giving a realistic experience, even if by accident. I don’t always fantasize about the porn star, I also have a thing about the barista at Starbucks with the messy bun and the nice curves. Variety is a good thing!

Just thought it was cool to share.

. . . It reminded me of college and some of those friends with benefits.. . . Originally Posted by 2929BN

Friends with Benefits - what's that?? Never had one of those.

Seriously that is a VERY cool story, and I 100% agree those kind of spontaneous moments really bring a fun time, and a closeness with ladies you see often.

I believe strongly that these fun times should be very natural and easy for both parties, it builds comfort and rapport with someone you love spending time with.

I'm glad everything worked out for you, 2929BN. I love women who have done their hair and applied makeup. Therefore, I admit that if I was in your situation and found that the lady I was about to have a session with had just woken up & not taken a shower ( wasn't clean), hadn't prepped herself etc. then yes, I would be disappointed.

When I book a session in advance, I expect her to be ready by the appointed time. Just like she expects me to be clean, groomed, and physically present at her incall with the donation in my pocket at the appointed time. I put a lot of time and effort into cleaning & prepping myself before a session. I also take a shower right before I travel to a provider's incall so I don't take a shower at her place. Your whole point of it being a "realistic life scenario" and "rolling with it" is all fine & dandy until you consider that you're spending a large amount of money so you can have an excellent experience that you will cherish for the rest of your life. Aprill for example, since you mentioned her, charges 600 minimum for the first session, and 500 minimum for subsequent sessions. For those rates, it's not unreasonable to expect the provider to be ready for you. I'm glad that you liked the "natural gfe look" but I'm guessing that for a lot of guys that simply wouldn't cut it.

I'm not criticizing the provider because life happens for everyone. I've also overslept in the past. The fact that she was panicking & apologizing shows that she did feel bad about it and wanted to make it right. She actually sounds like a very cool caring provider. If she did that to me, I would totally forgive her and just wait for her to get ready before proceeding with the session. I just take slight offense to you portraying this as a positive kumbayah moment when in reality, most guys would be disappointed.

Really cool story. I want to know who these two are. Please?

That's my version of GFE tbh haha. Me in pajamas, us chillin and whatnot and not faking it. I don't know a single 'girlfriend' that shows up to their man's house in heels, lingerie and full makeup. That just defeats the purpose of the girl next door/girlfriend experience and all of that gets in the way. The fun part is more fun when you feel like you just met the girl at the bar and she invited you back to her room for the afterparty not when this overdressed and stuffy lady walks in at 2am with bright red lipstick and 6in heels.

Majority of my regulars (if not all) come back for the non-professional setting where we're just watching Family Guy and talking and things just lead up to things ya know?

Pretty much describes every encounter I have ever had.

I always do outcall, either to my place or the hotel I am at when traveling. I usually get asked if there is any particular attire I would like her to wear. My comment is always casual attire, low key, low attention and for her to wear whatever makes her comfortable. If they dont ask, I make sure to request before setting a meet.

It is a lot easier to blend in around public places such as hotels, houses / neighborhoods / apartment complexes wearing everyday clothes than it is wearing those hot sexy outfits.

For me, that pretty much sets the tone at the beginning of the meet and reduces a certain amount of stress. I dont have to sit and think about a lady walking in somewhere that I am and she is wearing an outfit that screams attention. In that respect, knowing she is going to show up "casual", draw less attention to what is going to happen, it drops MY stress level before even meeting.

If they want / need to use a shower when they arrive, no big deal. I always book multi hour anyway and it never has been all bed time. Good way to actually relax and break the ice and maybe develop a bit of chemistry.

Really comes down to what your preferences are, your expectations, and what you are willing to pay. Everyone is different. I dont care if I pay 300/hr, 600/hr, or more for overnight.

There really is no right or wrong answer. Different strokes for different folks. Do what makes ya happy.

100% agree I make sure I dress to blend in any where I go when on tour and when at my own hotel incall and on a outcall I tell the Gent I dress down to blend in .
But at my incall I dress to impress just like my photos.

Pretty much describes every encounter I have ever had.

I always do outcall, either to my place or the hotel I am at when traveling. I usually get asked if there is any particular attire I would like her to wear. My comment is always casual attire, low key, low attention and for her to wear whatever makes her comfortable. If they dont ask, I make sure to request before setting a meet.

It is a lot easier to blend in around public places such as hotels, houses / neighborhoods / apartment complexes wearing everyday clothes than it is wearing those hot sexy outfits.

For me, that pretty much sets the tone at the beginning of the meet and reduces a certain amount of stress. I dont have to sit and think about a lady walking in somewhere that I am and she is wearing an outfit that screams attention. In that respect, knowing she is going to show up "casual", draw less attention to what is going to happen, it drops MY stress level before even meeting.

If they want / need to use a shower when they arrive, no big deal. I always book multi hour anyway and it never has been all bed time. Good way to actually relax and break the ice and maybe develop a bit of chemistry.

Really comes down to what your preferences are, your expectations, and what you are willing to pay. Everyone is different. I dont care if I pay 300/hr, 600/hr, or more for overnight.

There really is no right or wrong answer. Different strokes for different folks. Do what makes ya happy. Originally Posted by ChickenHawk73

A PAID IN CASH GFE is not a total GFE because a guy definitely does not want a TOTAL GFE, because the negative aspects of a girlfriend (messy place, messy person, poor timeliness and most of all, having to listen to her personal problems), he wants the positive aspects, mainly, if not all of it BCD. Why guys are paying is to get a provider to have excellent TCB skills and during the time together, have excellent hygiene and make him feel glad he is a man.

And ladies aka PROVIDERS, unless the guy is into necrophilia, laying there like a corpse with your eyes closed only opening them to glance at the clock on the desk, not being there mentally, just going through the motions and showing an apparent disdain for guys that choose to pay for an experience is NOT PROVIDING the GFE that guys are paying you for.

Sounds like GFE to me.

The thought of a client showing up right after I wake up and commenting on my messy hair and no makeup makes me cringe! Lol

I understand that’s your thing but my version of GFE still includes pretty makeup (even if natural) and done up hair, nails etc. and definitely a warm, alluring, bright personality to go along. I’ve laid around with clients watching YouTube videos in bed and laughing, but I when my guy shows up, I’m at the door 100% ready to impress and to play.

DP...... double post

Glad to see this had some discussion. So reading through, important to understand not all of the nice ladies here could pull this off. This also isn’t my “thing” just a pleasant surprise. Some ladies have a natural look, which is my thing, but I love them all dolled up too. Sometimes you get lucky and it all works out. Also helps to have a banging body and the ability to make me cum so hard it hurts my prostate....amazing how forgiving a man can be amirite?

Right same here

The thought of a client showing up right after I wake up and commenting on my messy hair and no makeup makes me cringe! Lol

I understand that’s your thing but my version of GFE still includes pretty makeup (even if natural) and done up hair, nails etc. and definitely a warm, alluring, bright personality to go along. I’ve laid around with clients watching YouTube videos in bed and laughing, but I when my guy shows up, I’m at the door 100% ready to impress and to play. Originally Posted by LuciaConte