Question for married memebers

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Has anyone visited a provider with their wife/gf/SO? How did it go? How did you bring up the subject? Providers who have experience with couples, add your 2 cents too.
Has anyone visited a provider with their wife/gf/SO? How did it go? How did you bring up the subject? Providers who have experience with couples, add your 2 cents too. Originally Posted by sandpro
This may be a question for John Edwards.
Ready for a provider's 2 cents? Here goes....

I have a regular COUPLE that I see.....they are pretty freaky and not too jealous. Still, occassionally, I feel like I am in a bad position because they are sometimes a little more jealous than I like. For example, HE likes to call me Paigey....she does not like him to call me that....she told him so one day, and it wasn't five minutes later and HE was calling me Paigey. I felt very uncomfortable. But, for the most part, it was pretty hot and he lasted forever and a day (I am sure this was thanks to Viagra), so it really wore both women out trying to finish him off.

It gets complicated because He sneaks off to see me without her knowing, so when i see them together, I feel like I have been cheating. For this reason, I don't see them anymore. make any sense at all?
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  • selot
  • 01-30-2010, 05:11 PM
Well the wife and I are swingers, that is how we orginally got started seeing other people... It came to the point that we could not find ladies in the swinging lifestyle that I was that interested in. She knew that I would see escorts when I traveled so I brought up the fact that we could probably find an escort that would see us together. She was ready to go, as she is very bi.

We have seen several ladies in our travels throughout the country.
I've seen a few couples
My fave was a pregnant couple who were both virgins when they met each other. Neither had ever been with another person OR ever played with toys!
I helped them explore a few fantasies.
HE was very shy and SHE loved watching him with me, but the pressure wasn't exactly helping him perform. Which I found endearing. <3
He loved his wife so much he had trouble fucking anyone else.
(i know i'm hot, that ain't the issue!)

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I've also seen swingers, together and separate. Once with the wife, once with the hubby, and a few times together.