Girls, Guys I need your imput . . .

I was just contacted by a man via an email linked to a site I advertise on. Nothing unusual about that except in his email he stated he was not interested in me professionally but personally, What? He droned on, waxing pseudo-poetic cheese dicking it up royally! I think he's just got high quality taste in pussy but low budget restraints. He wanna get the poonah-ny for free! Any thoughts, anybody? Guys-you especially! Am I wrong?

Ummm, yeah. If I were you I would meet him professionally at least once to see if he is for real. Who knows, you might just click and end up married with that white picket fence. :-) Of course he might just be a nut job too...


Either way let somebody know where you are and what you are going to do so you can be safe.

Dating anyone who would be ok with this lifestyle is not the type of guy I want to eventually marry. Just sayin'.

He wanna get the poonah-ny for free! Originally Posted by JustJodi

Jodi, dear, we ALL want that!

I'd let him know that this is not a dating service. If he were to meet you in public, unaware of this profession, and asked you out it would be one thing but not through a professional ad. I wouldn't even see him for a session. It sounds like he has the stalker gene and once he meets you you'll open up an unwanted can of worms or worse.

I would have to agree with not seeing him. The guys that are in the hobby know it is a business arrangement. I can see if a provider and hobbiest see each other on a regular basis certainly a friendship willl probably occur but that like any other relationship grows with time not someone who sees an ad and then wants you to bear his children. Dont walk but run the other way in my opinion (which we all know what is said about that) BE SAFE

Like the old song[looking for love in all the wrong places] that is not what you are looking for on this site,especially a guy you have never seen before,like dave said he could be a stalker,i would try to be nice ,but not communicate with him,always seperate business from pleasure.

Oh yes, a SCREAMING red flag! Stay away! Be safe!

I do not think he is trying to get free services, but I have not read the email either. If anyone has seen my writing it certainly can drone on, lol.

Then again he could be blurring the line between fantasy and reality. I like the idea of being honest and up front with him about your concerns. One thing I cannot stand from a lady is a lie. Just tell me the truth, you are concerned that I am viewing this situation in a light it is not intended to be. You are not interested in a personal relationship at this time with me. If personal relationship is hwere this going you simply have to decline his invitation but wish him all the best.

I have percieved friends lying to me through rumors and and outside conversations. I made a huge mistake by not confronting the individual and simply asking, come to find out it was all a misunderstanding. So, a part of the GFE experience for him may have started with his email, just ask to find out. I know I like all the predate flirting and post date thank yous, to me it all a part of the experience, but after we say thank you please wait for me to contact for a repeat, do not stalk me, lol.

Just say no!

Jodi,
I agree with pornodave, not worth the risk. After he sees you once you won't be able to get rid of him, if you wanted too.

One word..."NUTTER". Steer clear hon. I get these occasionally too. Men saying "You seem so personable" or "I think we have so much in common." Yeah. Be that as it may...you understood the deal when you logged on to the site where you found me.

He droned on, waxing pseudo-poetic cheese dicking it up royally! Originally Posted by JustJodi

So the voices in my head told me to send you an email. Geez. What's the big deal?

Seriously, he sounds a little psycho. I'd steer clear.

Tell him to join up here. Then check his sig. and make sure its not some craze old ass song lyrics.
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The gentleman who wanted to meet you as a friend may have been a kook, or he may have been someone of intelligence who wanted a relationship with a beautiful, classy female for conversation. He may have wanted companionship with unconditional acceptance of him without any comittment on his part. I assume he was willing to pay for this time with an intelligent female partner. Men are efficiency oriented. They want to do things in the easiest and fastest way. In the movie the Stepford wives the woman would do everything in their means to please their husband both intellectually and sexually. The female would understand her husband and strive to meet all of his needs such as sympathizing with him and appreciating him for everything he does. A courtesan is a person paid and/or supported for the giving of social companionship and intimate liaisons. A courtesan is (should be) more more respected by their extramarital companions. The internet has allowed men to meet respectful women for sexual pleasures with minimal committment. These women are more like the courtesan of days past as they have class along with their skills in the bedroom. Hopefully the entertainment fee charged by the escort will weed out the trash who are unable to appreciate the opportunity to meet someone interesting and entertaining with no comittment except for the financial arrangement.

Over the years I have met women in the profession that I would pay for social companionship because of their willingness to make me feel relaxed and accepted. I must admit that it helped that they met my sexual needs. I have always been thankful for these women who have helped me satisfy a need in a fun, classy, professional manner.

JG