]It sounds like you want to prove that the girl's like you more than they like BLM.[/COLOR] I see the the OP's point to be more about our perspective, rather than the ladies' thoughts (not to discount their feelings).
To answer the original questions, I'd say I land right in the middle. I basically have a lot of time in my hands on some occasions and it's nice to break up the boredom with a massage and a little play time. I enjoy the chit chat, a text here and there, or maybe even some OTC and non-hobby related visits. But as far as romance, companionship, evening dates, Christmas with the family... that stuff is pretty well covered on the home front.
Originally Posted by ElBombero;1059179442[COLOR=red
Quite the opposite - I truly believe there are more Providers who would line up on a preference for BLM-style than mine... and "liking either person more" is irrelevant.
I believe most of these women here do this for the money; so the preference from providers could likely predominately be for BLM. Add to that, there's probably quite a few who are flat out disgusted and grossed out by this life - but are of the "do what you need to do" attitude, so they swallow their bile down and provide services to us (whom they would never even chat up in the RW).
But your honesty about how you place yourself on the scale EB, is the same honesty with a scale that could be said for Providers.
I don't know who the extremes are there... (another good thread probably) but I'm sure there's a "clock watching, QV preferring, money hungry girl" on one end who is all about the fee... and a "Sex loving, non-IOP but real passion, wanting more girl" on the other end who while (expecting the fee) is actually more in this for the sex and companionship... and just like the guys, Providers would fall somewhere on that scale too.
Fortunately, like you, BF and many point out - it's a bell curve. with most falling in the middle, kind of wanting a little of each... and that is a powerful message for providers if they get it. The one's who do, are the non-clock watchers who realize that an extra 10 minutes ( a drink, some laughter, a back rub, hell even grabbing a burger afterwards) now makes it "better" for a vast "90% area" of guys.
Look, it's no secret I like Berkleigh -and she's cute, friendly, and awesome in bed... but she latched onto something years ago on this, and made her $300 single hour appointment into a 90 minutes (same fee)... its because she knows that extra non-action time allows a little nod to most guys who need a little interaction with their action... and she does it perfectly. Plus, she's not a clock-watcher (on EITHER side - slam! lol. Luv you Baby!)...
So like the guys, most savvy providers get this - and that's why on their bell curve, so many aren't clock-watchers now. Like McDonald's (and every other business)
adaptation of your menu after review of the client preferences enhances business performance.
(Sh#t, I normally get paid like $5k just for
that advice - you all owe me...lmao)
BLM
