I posted asking for lunch meetings awhile back. Even though a few ladies just did not seem to understand or approve of meeting OTC first, many did. I received 5 lunch requests and have been on several so far. And, I have completed a session with one of the wonderfull ladies who said it is OK to post about what happened.
Brave woman!
I met Dragonfly early one evening for drinks. I looked at her profile of course and honestly, she just was not my "type". Nice, but not someone I would have sought out. But, when I posted asking for meetings, I decided I would meet anyone who was willing to put forth the effort. And BOY, am I glad I did!!!
She came in for a drink and we sat down to talk. 15 minutes quickly turned into 3 1/2 hours of talking, eating, drinking, having a great time getting to know each other. Whats it called when 2 people meet, relax , enjoy each others company??? Oh yea! a Date! Thats what it felt like!!
We talked about a lot of things, including hobby stuff, likes, dislikes, etc. Before long, it felt like we were old friends! After about 30 minutes, I was ready to drag her onto the table and do it right there! She is so charming, so personable that she made me feel like she was the perfect girl for me.
No amount of reviews, emails, phone calls, etc could have created that bond. As a result, I did schedule time with her and it was one of the most satisfying experiences I have ever had. The other ladies I have met were great and I enjoyed them a lot. But, this was exceptional because of the time spent getting to know each other first. And, I will be back for more
Guys, if you get the chance to meet with a lady before hand, it can be worth it if you are interested in more than just "getting it on". I never expected our meeting to last so long but she seemed to enjoy it as much as me.
Ladies, no one expectes you to give up productive time or other customers just to meet someone new. But, if you have the time, try spending it meeting new possible clients. Could be rewarding for you in many ways as well.
Thanks Dragonfly and the other ladies who agreed to meet me. I look forward to meeting all of you. XOXO