Hobbiest says Fetish. Provider says Tuesday.

  • grean
  • 01-29-2019, 03:43 PM
Would any providers mind sharing general requests from your clients that they thought to be a fetish, but for you, it is as vanilla as missionary?
kushella's Avatar
COT

like....I guess thats a fetish lmao. Pretty much a mandatory act for us top heavier women
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
That's for sue ..

COT

like....I guess thats a fetish lmao. Pretty much a mandatory act for us top heavier women Originally Posted by kushella
Laura Lynn's Avatar
Agreed with COT. When friends ask if I'm ok with COT, I'm like sure of course. Lol
Or when they ask if they can worship my ass. Yes please, it's one of my favorite things. (I have lots of favorites)
  • grean
  • 01-30-2019, 11:51 AM
Are they just asking, not because it's a fetish, but just because it's polite to ask before they spew bodily fluid all over you?

I would think if they asked you to play with it, that would cross over into fetish territory. I'm surprised, given all the porn, that many would actually think of COT as a fetish.
Joni HappyMassage's Avatar
So according to Mr Webster a fetish is (& I quote)
“Having an extreme fixation, usually sexually satisfying on something.”

So those items are a fetish. I mean you could have a blow job fetish... I suppose I know a few of you who should own up!!
And that said the idea of an extreme fixation became tied up with some kinky things and I suppose we are mixing the two incorrectly.
Guess communication is key, bring on your fixations. I’ve heard most all of them.
  • grean
  • 01-30-2019, 01:48 PM
How Mr. Webster defines a fetish is a bit different than how most do, then.

Fixating on a blowjob vs. Anal.

Some may consider anal fetish while others dont.

Are there any provider who look at blowjobs as a fetish?
Joni HappyMassage's Avatar
That’s what I’m saying, of course no one does in terms of it being strange or outrageous, nor would most Consider COT, I don’t consider anal or squirting a fetish at all either. Some do I guess ?
is eating ass a fetish, or is that the norm? Like if a guy said he wants to eat your ass, is that out of the norm?
Joni HappyMassage's Avatar
According to Webster, yes for you it is... I know.....
I tend to say no it falls under just good fun. Guess you cast the deciding vote ?
Laura Lynn's Avatar
How Mr. Webster defines a fetish is a bit different than how most do, then.

Fixating on a blowjob vs. Anal.

Some may consider anal fetish while others dont.

Are there any provider who look at blowjobs as a fetish? Originally Posted by grean
A regular bj, probably not a fetish. While worship and edging, probably more so.

Anal, while it is fun, is still a little taboo and lots of people don't do it, so plain ole anal could be more of a kink. I think it's hard to say "normal" anal is a fetish unless it's all you do and you fixate on all acts of it, various positions, etc.

I had a regular friend a few years ago that only wanted anal. Only watched anal porn, fixated on it sliding in, etc. didn't even mind a little truffle butter. So for him, maybe it was a fetish.
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  • BLM69
  • 01-31-2019, 03:44 PM
A regular bj, probably not a fetish. While worship and edging, probably more so.

Anal, while it is fun, is still a little taboo and lots of people don't do it, so plain ole anal could be more of a kink. I think it's hard to say "normal" anal is a fetish unless it's all you do and you fixate on all acts of it, various positions, etc.

I had a regular friend a few years ago that only wanted anal. Only watched anal porn, fixated on it sliding in, etc. didn't even mind a little truffle butter. So for him, maybe it was a fetish. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
You into some back door stuffing?
  • grean
  • 02-01-2019, 08:14 AM
You into some back door stuffing? Originally Posted by BLM69

See, that's what I was talking about. I never asked.
Laura Lynn's Avatar
You into some back door stuffing? Originally Posted by BLM69
Um no. That same friend ruined it for me.
Plus I don't want a cauliflower bunghole
Grace Preston's Avatar
Tuesday-- Tickling you with a feather.

Fetish-- Using the whole damn chicken.