Are you sexually evolving or deviating from reality?

I find myself being more and more attracted to women that are the extreme opposite (at least in physical appearance) to myself. I use to be all about the “Dallas Blonde/Barbie Doll look” but over the last 10 years or so I have developed an insatiable appetite for women of different races, especially women of mixed race. Ive gone from disliking tattoos (and I still dislike tramp stamps) to being extremely attracted to women with full sleeves and full back tattoos. I’ve gone from being a germophobe to not being satisfied unless a woman’s wet pussy is smeared all over me. I use to think anal was just gross and now I’m infatuated with (covered) missionary anal. I can rarely find porn that satisfies my imagination of two women sharing one creampie or a group of hot woman squirting on my cock while I’m jacking off.

Growing older as a man can be pretty tricky. Its getting harder and harder to get my fix because I cant find what I want and harder and harder to keep it hard long enough to do all all the kinky stuff I want.

I am much the same way, though not quite to the level you are, I think.. you know what I think it is?

as guys age, we lose some from the physical side, and the mental side tries to take over and get things back where they were.. the brain conjures up what used to be forbidden, nasty, or outrageous, hoping to light that physical spark whose light is dimming. that's why the number of aged Perverts is extremely high, vis-à-vis the younger set.

Yep, I’m getting to be older, fatter, balder, and less attractive, but with more discerning standard. And I’m finding myself more attracted to younger, skinnier, more attractive women with a full head if hair who have low standards.

I have never been with a woman I didn't have to pay or marry, and the last time the latter happened was 21 years ago. There's lots of kinky stuff I would like to try, like sex with the lights on, or somewhere besides a bed, but I am too busy trying to ensure that my basic needs are met. I think I am attracted do the under-25 group because I'm trying to relive the youth that I never lived the first time. I still look young enough that I can fool myself into thinking that a woman less than half my age finds me attractive, but that is not going to last for much longer. And then there will be no more cover for the self-deception, and I will be forced to confront the reality that the only reason a woman ever paid attention to me was money.

I think I am attracted do the under-25 group because I'm trying to relive the youth that I never lived the first time. I still look young enough that I can fool myself into thinking that a woman less than half my age finds me attractive, but that is not going to last for much longer. And then there will be no more cover for the self-deception, and I will be forced to confront the reality that the only reason a woman ever paid attention to me was money. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

BINGO/100% accurate for me as well.

I am enjoying myself on P411 and Eccie, as I feel I am making up for a LOT of lost time, and enjoying the most beautiful and engaging women I possibly can, while I still can.

My reason: I was NEVER a "player" when I was younger, and even though I was fit (bicycle racer), athletic, and successful in my careers, I could NEVER EVER attract or 'pull' women at all. I have such zero game it's pathetic, all my friends can attest to this.

I also "lost" a lot of years, as I was the caregiver for my Ailing/sickly mother, who lived in my house for many, many years. Dating/playtime is nearly impossible when your sickly and needy parent is living with you.

So now...….as I posted in the "thank you, just saying.." thread - I am gracious and happy to those wonderful ladies who agree to see me. I'm very fit and healthy for my age, (so I hope they don't have to close their eyes and suffer through my visits, LOL) and I DO believe in treating everyone well with mutual fun, but.....I'm making up for a LOT of lost years, by visiting as many hotties as I possibly can at this time.

So to answer the question - I'm kind of "evolving", but the truth is I'm making up for lost time.

BINGO/100% accurate for me as well.

I am enjoying myself on P411 and Eccie, as I feel I am making up for a LOT of lost time, and enjoying the most beautiful and engaging women I possibly can, while I still can.

My reason: I was NEVER a "player" when I was younger, and even though I was fit (bicycle racer), athletic, and successful in my careers, I could NEVER EVER attract or 'pull' women at all. I have such zero game it's pathetic, all my friends can attest to this.

I also "lost" a lot of years, as I was the caregiver for my Ailing/sickly mother, who lived in my house for many, many years. Dating/playtime is nearly impossible when your sickly and needy parent is living with you.

So now...….as I posted in the "thankful" thread - I am gracious and happy to those wonderful ladies who agree to see me. I'm very fit and healthy for my age, (so I hope they don't have to close their eyes and suffer through my visits, LOL) and I DO believe in treating everyone well with mutual fun, but.....I'm making up for a LOT of lost years, by visiting as many hotties as I possibly can at this time.

So to answer the question - I'm kind of "evolving", but the truth is I'm making up for lost time. Originally Posted by SchnellerFahrer

A LOT of females are going to consider you a VERY appealing/attractive person after reading this. The fact that you took care of your Mother while she was ill, and sacrificed a lot while doing so (earning that t-shirt now) is very commendable.

Admitting to not being a 'player' (yeah!) puts you in the "good guy" grouping to me.

VERY attractive post above.

Sincerely,
Elisabeth

I find myself being more and more attracted to women that are the extreme opposite (at least in physical appearance) to myself. I use to be all about the “Dallas Blonde/Barbie Doll look” but over the last 10 years or so I have developed an insatiable appetite for women of different races, especially women of mixed race. Ive gone from disliking tattoos (and I still dislike tramp stamps) to being extremely attracted to women with full sleeves and full back tattoos. I’ve gone from being a germophobe to not being satisfied unless a woman’s wet pussy is smeared all over me. I use to think anal was just gross and now I’m infatuated with (covered) missionary anal. I can rarely find porn that satisfies my imagination of two women sharing one creampie or a group of hot woman squirting on my cock while I’m jacking off.
... Originally Posted by FunMonday

This is such an interesting topic. I think that sexuality is a very fluid thing and in my experience, when men get a certain age, they want to try activities that they've been curious about for years (while working, raising children, taking care of family members) but now, wish to try crazy sexual activities before it's too late to be a tri-sexual.

As for me, I think that I'm devolving, sexually. haha

I'm truly enjoying the more simpler pleasures. Kissing, cuddling, being naughty under the covers. Used to be more "balls to the walls" type of sexuality was more my preference when opportunity presented itself.

Now? Sweetness, with a little bit of nasty, is more my style than the other way around.

Maybe that's not devolving but it's a bit different than what I used to prefer. Still like a bit of variety, though. Grin.

I joined the navy when I was 18 and was stationed in the Philippines in the 70's hard to devolve from there but left a sexual imprint on me for life... I was damn near 40 before having a blonde or even a white chick...
Picture walking into a bar with maybe 100 women... and you can pick whatever you want

A LOT of females are going to consider you a VERY appealing/attractive person after reading this. The fact that you took care of your Mother while she was ill, and sacrificed a lot while doing so (earning that t-shirt now) is very commendable.

Admitting to not being a 'player' (yeah!) puts you in the "good guy" grouping to me.

VERY attractive post above.

Sincerely,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Elisabeth, thanks so much for your kind words!

These are sacrifices we make, just trying to do the right thing here. Caring for Senior/sickly parents is very stressful and emotional, now that Mom is an Assisted Living facility, it allows me to pursue a 'normal' life now.

PS: Anyone going through Senior care - feel free to PM me as I've gathered resources and information, help, etc I'm more than willing to share.

Thanks SO much for your comments, best to you and everyone here.

Older women. Never gave them a passing thought until I became older. Now I prefer them. MILFs and GILFs, body proportioned ( big tits, some tummy, and a matronly ass ).

Im too fucking old and too soft to satisfy a younger gal. I'd lick their pussy's tho. And their starfishes ! Ha !

BINGO/100% accurate for me as well.

I am enjoying myself on P411 and Eccie, as I feel I am making up for a LOT of lost time, and enjoying the most beautiful and engaging women I possibly can, while I still can.

BINGO/100% accurate for me as well.

I am enjoying myself on P411 and Eccie, as I feel I am making up for a LOT of lost time, and enjoying the most beautiful and engaging women I possibly can, while I still can.
Originally Posted by rexdutchman

Right there with you Rex and Schneller! Early 60’s here and working on a long TDL .

In my youth, I was all about the pron star look. Now that I'm older and in the hobby, I find myself gravitating towards milfy types. Hot but not perfect.

Ironically, I now find that I'm gravitating towards women that I feel like I could get in the RW. I think this is because it makes her IOP more believable. Which makes it more hot for me.

To answer sexually evolving , Remember 60 is the new 40 . (lol)

I joined the navy when I was 18 and was stationed in the Philippines in the 70's hard to devolve from there but left a sexual imprint on me for life... I was damn near 40 before having a blonde or even a white chick...
Picture walking into a bar with maybe 100 women... and you can pick whatever you want Originally Posted by mikehammer002001

I feel very bad for you Mike.. that must have been an awful experience, starting your young sexual journey that way, so many young ladies at your disposal. I can see how it messed your mind.. I hope you are in long-term counseling.

by the way, is there an age cutoff for joining the Navy?