Adding Some "Spice" - Different Ways To Mix Up A Session

Instead of the 'usual' hobby date as I know it, I've often thought it would be nice if there was more tease and foreplay (not to confused with four ply...tires n' toilet paper) sorry...kinda’. Do dates ever go more this way instead of the more 'predictable' scenario?

I think the appetizer and entree are equally important, as is the balance of the two and
how they work to complement each other. It could start out with an erotic lap dance or something like that? It's safe & it can be a steamy experience from an arousal and teasing standpoint. Personally, I'd do with a little less of the typical preliminaries for the steam of an erotic lap dance with plenty of inappropriate contact going on (think strip club with all the rules thrown out the window.) A splendiferous upgrade from the typical 'club' dance.

The experience could start out with a fully clothed provider, helping to undress her while doing some light making out and exploring. Usually providers are already wearing little or nothing. Sometimes the groping 'through the clothes' while making out and the experience of slipping a hand up her blouse while making out or sneaking a hand into her panties can be pretty steamy stuff.

I've never showered with a provider, although that could possibly provide a nice avenue
for some fun to occur. Of course you need a location with a good working shower with good water pressure & plenty of hot water. Unfortunately hotel showers are notorious for not being very good, so I realize this might not always be a feasible option.

I've never asked a provider for such activities, so I take responsibility for that. The limitations I've experienced may be due to my limited imagination or just not asking. Unfortunately there's no formal training course for hobby-ing, so I don't know what's reasonable to suggest. It may be that some of the best and simplest things all too often get overlooked. I'd like some input from the girls as to your thoughts on it. Is this something that would sometimes appeal to you, or would it just amount to more work from your perspective? Would you sometimes find this to be a nice start to a session?

I mentioned erotic lap dance as a possible starter because it's my current lil' personal reoccurring daydream /fantasy. The only lap dances I've ever had were (clubs) and they were just that - lap dances, no touching, blah blah blah...disappointing stuff all in all. Afterwards you either leave walking sorta bent over, or with a wet spot in your pants, (added value) either way somewhat of a disappointment. I'm sure there are other neat ways to turn up the heat as well. It seems like it's all too easy to get into a pattern... get to the room, donate, say Hi, get undressed, hobby hobby hobby, get dressed, say Goodbye, and leave. I realize that preferences vary from person to person. Also a factor is that it's always a battle against the clock to try and achieve the perfect balance of what you reasonably hope to experience in the time you have.

Aside from the shower, you just described what a typical first meeting with me is like . . . I always begin a new client session with tease and I'm dressed to impress . . . Of course, things may vary from client to client as I read the session and each individual has their own preferences, but I adore beginning each new relationship with teasing and undressing, and I give a hell of a lap dance (I was a featured [headlining] touring dancer prior to Escorting). If that is your lead - I'll happily follow, as that is what I prefer and am prepared for . . . As for the shower issue, visit ladies that stay in better hotels and the hot water won't be a problem! Occasionally, depending on the situation, it may take some advance notice with many ladies if you'd like to shower together, and sometimes it is damn near impossible. For me, it is a very "once in a blue moon thing" to do as it usually doesn't fit my schedule, but I do enjoy sharing a hot tub with my evening clients when I am done for the day, especially when I tour (if the hotel offers the amenity, I'll usually book it).

Just ask! I'll bet you that all the ladies in Nebraska would love to make your wishes come true! Communication is KEY!

Kisses,

- Jackie

Originally Posted by HornyDog57

I'll give Jackie a bona fide thumbs up!
BTW - I'm not sure she can see the private statement

No, verified providers cannot see comments marked between [ PRIVATE ] ... [ /PRIVATE ] tags . . .

I'm sure if the HornyDog wants us all to know what he's written, he'll let us know.

- Jackie

I offer a unique session....lots of energy/laughing together/teasing/touching/etc......

I especially like a good soapy bubble bath with a guy before the start.....that is hard to do in some hotels..but if the situation is right & you are game for it,let's do it!

No, verified providers cannot see comments marked between [ PRIVATE ] ... [ /PRIVATE ] tags . . .

I'm sure if the HornyDog wants us all to know what he's written, he'll let us know.

- Jackie Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

I'm not very good with the site yet as far as figuring out all of it's ins and outs. No pun intended... but what the heck?. I appreciate all who help me along the way as I try to get the hang of it. Thanks Bigh, also for pointing out my fauxpas. Not my first or last no doubt.

I mentioned the issue, in reply to BigH, HornyDog, only as it appeared from BigH's post subsequent to your own that you may have intended for others to see what you had written. I certainly didn't mean to offer offense in doing so. But, what the heck, silly me.

You have a great day!

- Jackie

I mentioned the issue, in reply to BigH, HornyDog, only as it appeared from BigH's post subsequent to your own that you may have intended for others to see what you had written. I certainly didn't mean to offer offense in doing so. But, what the heck, silly me.

You have a great day!

- Jackie Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

No offense taken, far from it... As I said, I'm learning or at least trying to. Thanks again For the record, my original intent was to send my response privately to you, not to exclude you. If this was Outlook, I'd have got it right. Still learning "Eccie-nese"

No offense taken, far from it... As I said, I'm learning or at least trying to. Thanks again For the record, my original intent was to send my response privately to you, not to exclude you. If this was Outlook, I'd have got it right. Still learning "Eccie-nese" Originally Posted by HornyDog57

LOL - Okay, CLICK HERE and send me a private message! We were all new at this once.

Kisses,

- Jackie

I think the private quotes on the message board are kind of confusing. The private comments aren't really private, but can be seen by all men that have premium access. So they are private to a group, not an individual.

Back to HD57s question about spicing things up...

While I'm normally all about finding the ultimate GFE, there are a few things I've been interested in doing that for one reason or another haven't happened.

I would love to schedule an extended session with two ladies who are truly bi-sexual. I want to just lay back and enjoy myself as I watch them sensually, passionately pleasure each other...starting off fully clothed and ending in a sweaty satisfied heap with just enough energy left for a two-on-one BBBJTCIM snowball ending.

My second thought about spice would probably be considered lame by most folks around here, but it takes all kinds to make the world go around. I'm a HUGE fan of oral. I'd enjoy making a private tastefully/artfully done video of various things involving oral pleasure...both mine and hers, and it's not just the BJ and DATY. (Now all I have to do is gain back 30 lbs of muscle and lose 30 years off my age. lol)