Prostate Stimuli.......

Since so many providers seem to be adding this to their menu, Just some pointers to help the play flow smoothly with out any pain or injury.....Note #2 Short trimmed nails are a MUST, even with a condom or glove on you do not want to cause a scratch or tear in or on the anus. I continue to get clients that tell me Ive had PS before and dont like, it hurt. There is NO reason for PS to cause pain if done correctly. You always start small and with lots of lube. PS is to increase the males pleasure and facilitate him in having a very intense O. Have fun and enjoy.....Slurp~~

1. Wash up, and relax.
Many of us have issues with cleanliness when it comes to exploring anal play. Having a warm bath or hot show may help alleviate anxiety about this. It also helps to relax you, which is an important state to be in for any sex play. Finally, the bath or shower can be a great place to explore. Because feces only travel through the rectum on the way out of the body, you won’t find very much there. If you are concerned about having a bowel movement during prostate stimulation, make sure you go to the bathroom before you begin.

2.Trim your nails and smooth out the rough edges.
The lining of the anus is very sensitive and can be torn easily. If you're playing with sex toys, make sure they are safe for anal penetration. Consider using latex or nitrile gloves. They are a good way to deal with hang nails and small cuts on your hands, plus if you have any concerns about cleanliness they provide a barrier between you and all your bodily fluids.

3.Turn yourself on.
Because the prostate swells when aroused, it’s easier to locate when you’re hot and bothered so watch an adult movie, masturbate, fantasize...whatever gets you in the mood. Unless the scientific approach is a turn on for you, trying to find the prostate in a dispassionate way is neither the best nor more enjoyable approach
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4.Find a comfortable position.
If you are exploring on your own find a sex position you are most comfortable in where you have access to your bum. Try lying on your side, or squatting. Sitting in a comfy chair might work, or lie on your back with your legs in the air. You need a position you’ll be comfortable in for a while. Using pillows is always a good way to get comfortable.

5.Start on the outside, massage your anus and perineum.
You never want to rush the penetration part of anal play. Start with an external massage. The perineum is located between the scrotum and the anus. Many people find that massaging the perineum is relaxing and pleasurable. You probably won't be able to feel the prostate with your fingers while massaging the perineum, but you are actually stimulating it indirectly. Massage the anus using a rhythmic, circular motion. You can gently push on the anus as if you're ringing a doorbell, without forcing your finger inside. This will help relax the anal sphincter.

6.Go on in.
When you are ready to insert a finger in the anus, try to tune into your breath. You can use conscious breathing techniques to deepen your awareness of physical responses. Make sure you have lots of lubricant on hand, literally and figuratively. The best way to insert a finger in the anus is to start with the pad of your finger first (not the tip). Gently put the pad of one finger up to the opening of the anus and leave it there while you breath. When you are exhaling, push out as if you’re trying to go to the bathroom and you should feel your sphincter muscles relax a bit and your finger should be able to slid in. Once inside, rest a moment while you get used to the sensation of having something in your anus.

7.Find your prostate.
You should be able to feel your prostate about two inches in and toward your belly. It is often a walnut-shaped bump. Some men will know when they are touching it, others won’t notice much at all. It can be easier to have someone else find it for you (if you happen to have someone handy!)

8.Experiment with different kinds of touch.
Once you’ve found the prostate you can experiment with what feels good. Some people like the feeling of consistent pressure on the prostate, others prefer vibration, or an on-off kind of pressure. You can also experiment by squeezing your PC muscle and see how that changes the feeling.

9.Using sex toys.
Anal sex toys can be a great way to explore prostate stimulation. Toys that have a slight curve are often designed for prostate stimulation. Some toys will vibrate, which is a completely different kind of sensation that some guys like and others don’t. If you’re going to try a vibrator, be sure to get one with variable speed, so you can start slow if you want to.
Butt plugs are anal toys designed to be inserted in the anus and stay in place. Some guys will put in a butt plug and then have other kinds of sex play (either masturbation or play with partners). Many say that having a butt plug in (which provides a mild but constant prostate stimulation) really changes the way that their orgasms feel.

Ms. Athena, Thanks for taking the time to write this informative post. I look forward to perfecting this technique.
Smooches, Alaine

Ms Athena is the expert....she took me to levels of pleasure I never even imagined. Guys, get over the fear, the thought you might be gay, or the embarrasment and let a woman like Ms. Athena show you what real pleasure can be like. It's truly amazing!!!

Very nice write up!

Athena, you're the best. I enjoyed your loving touch

Origins of Prostate Massage Therapy:

Prostate Massage Therapy was regularly practiced by the medical professionals as well as the Tantric masters in ancient China and India thousands of years ago. It has also been found that this therapy was also common among the doctors during the days of Roman civilization. Medical Practitioners used to perform Prostate Massage Therapy during the days of Mayan Civilization as well. It is now known that the reason behind this particular therapy was mainly to provide the sultans and emperors an enhanced sexual life. This is probably the reason why some of the ancient kings and emperors had a number of wives and hundreds of mid wives and children. Advanced techniques of the therapy were taught to these women in order to satisfy the emperors to the fullest. A majority of these centuries-old techniques are lost with time and the methods practiced by the modern doctors worldwide are only a few of their remnants. It has also been found that prostate-related problems, unlike today, were more or less unheard of in past. Partly due to the age-old prostate-massage techniques prevalent in those days and partly because only few men lived long enough to experience prostate related conditions.

http://www.prostate-health-center.co...ge-therapy.php

If it was good enough for the sultans and emperors then it's good enough for me.....ijs

I can second that Ms. Athena is a professional with and about anal play. She's taken me in directions with anal play that I haven't experienced in ages, and she does it with a healthy mix of care and raw sexual energy.

One friendly note to add to the anal lovers here: make sure if you use butt plugs or other toys, you use the toys with a wide base if you're just starting out.

I can second that Ms. Athena is a professional with and about anal play. She's taken me in directions with anal play that I haven't experienced in ages, and she does it with a healthy mix of care and raw sexual energy.

One friendly note to add to the anal lovers here: make sure if you use butt plugs or other toys, you use the toys with a wide base if you're just starting out. Originally Posted by 7071949597

MsAthena is a pro at anal play!

And that was a great point!

I luv doing anal play on my guys.............and they luv it! I just got an hitachi massage wand and some cool anal toy attachments for it!

Patience/sensualitypractice & research make it so much damn fun!!

MsAthena is a pro at anal play!

And that was a great point!

I luv doing anal play on my guys.............and they luv it! I just got an hitachi massage wand and some cool anal toy attachments for it!

Patience/sensualitypractice & research make it so much damn fun!! Originally Posted by DallasRain

(sigh) Too bad Dallas for us up north have to wait for spring thaw to enjoy you and your toy box again...

(sigh) Too bad Dallas for us up north have to wait for spring thaw to enjoy you and your toy box again... Originally Posted by borisbaggins

What, Dee's *toy box* flys south for the winter? It must not like the cold either...

I am available for you ladies to practice this specific craft! Im sure I can find time to lend to you!

lol I hate cold weather....too many years spent in Bend oregon!

I try not to go above the dallas/shreveport line till winter thaws out!But I will be there after that with some new toys!

I have watched MsAthena use her hitachi in wonderful ways...now I get to try mine out!! yeahhhhhhhhhhh!!

I am available for you ladies to practice this specific craft! Im sure I can find time to lend to you! Originally Posted by crazytender

Bring it on slut!!! Im a cumming your way next week............Slurp~~

Bravo Ma'am !