Hey everybody!
So ive decided to visit the Greek Isle for the first time! I want to experience to be a good one so that It can become a regular adventure for me! Id really appreciate any tips, tricks, advice or instructions to help me prepare for my fist time!!
XOXO
Sylvia Saints!
- Sylvia Saints
- 04-24-2013, 10:37 AM
- Meerschaum
- 04-24-2013, 11:01 AM
Hey everybody!You really don't want to do a fist on your first try! J/k. My advice would be clean up with an enema, use lots of lube and toys to get used to it at first.
So ive decided to visit the Greek Isle for the first time! I want to experience to be a good one so that It can become a regular adventure for me! Id really appreciate any tips, tricks, advice or instructions to help me prepare for my fisttime!!
XOXO
Sylvia Saints! Originally Posted by Sylvia Saints
- Guest082814
- 04-24-2013, 11:20 AM
If you venture south to Houston I would love to be of assistance
- SweetAterPie
- 04-24-2013, 11:21 AM
I would suggest you restrict yourself to those over or under 1.3.
- LickHer
- 04-24-2013, 11:24 AM
Hey everybody!LOTS of foreplay, plenty of lube, don't allow switching from hole to hole without changing party hats...
So ive decided to visit the Greek Isle for the first time! I want to experience to be a good one so that It can become a regular adventure for me! Id really appreciate any tips, tricks, advice or instructions to help me prepare for my fist time!!
XOXO
Sylvia Saints! Originally Posted by Sylvia Saints
- Guest070818-1
- 04-24-2013, 11:27 AM
Hey everybody!- Clean your asshole with an enema.
So ive decided to visit the Greek Isle for the first time! I want to experience to be a good one so that It can become a regular adventure for me! Id really appreciate any tips, tricks, advice or instructions to help me prepare for my fist time!!
XOXO
Sylvia Saints! Originally Posted by Sylvia Saints
- Use LOTS of lube but I highly recommended silicone based lube like astrogel. KY jelly tends to create an uneasy warm or somewhat burning sensation in the ass. The sex shop also sells something called "Anal ease", I've heard that its pretty good! Spit works too...
- Do anal in doggie first, place your hand on the guys shaft and guide his head to you asshole and ssslllloooowwwwlllyyyyy guide it in. Don't let him thrust just yet. The tight ring at the beginning at the asshole needs to relax and I think its the most uncomfortable part of greek.
- Let him thrust slowly. If you feel pain, don't crawl all over the bed, just back that thing up on him and take it. Your colon will soon relax as he penetrates your asshole.
- If you feel good, take it up a notch and fuck faster. To me, anal sex stimulates my g-spot. It doesn't feel as great as if he were to be in my kitty, but it feels different and stimulates the back of your g spot.
- Also, always use proper protection. Hepatitis can be contracted through fecal matter...
Have fun and enjoy girl!
- jfred
- 04-24-2013, 12:16 PM
Good technical tips from BSB, but let me add a couple things...
The pre-enema is a nice touch if the lady is anticipating anal sex. There is always a chance of coming out with a little something from last night's dinner
but for people with normal digestion (and reasonably high fiber in their diet) not much is stored in the rectum and spontaneous anal penetration is possible without any close encounters of the turd kind.
And it is, of course the rectum (not the colon) that receives the penis. Otherwise we would get messy!
BSB is correct that the rectum often needs to adjust to an object moving from the "wrong" direction and there can be some temporary discomfort (cramping) associated. The real hurdle (to use a poor metaphor) is the anal sphincter. Thats the little ring of muscle surrounding the anal orifice and it's whole raison d'être is to keep that portal closed until stimulated by familiar pressure from inside.
Lube is essential. The pre-insertion penis should be well coated but it's equally important to get lube inside -- the anus can be very tight and essentially wipe off most of the lube on initial penetration, so work it in with your fingers beforehand, or let her do that. (It's fun!) And once you're in, before you begin any to-and-fro, pull your fat belly out of the way and squirt some lube at the point of penetration. Then slowly begin a well-lubricated series of short penetrations (beginning with a slight "out") to move the material inside. If things don't get really slippery do it again. She'll thank you for that.
Working lube in with the fingers serves the second purpose of getting the sphincter accustomed to opening from outside pressure. A rule of thumb
is that if you can work 2 fingers around, your dick can get in next. Slipping in as the fingers come out can be an easy segue but requires some finesse.
Occasionally guys find that getting everything ready for the big trip leaves them less than dynamically erect. My advice in that case is to use something other than your dick. Anal penetration can require substantially more pressure than required to get in a wet vagina (which is 2-12/ lbs, incidentally). A good hard dick is a precise instrument and that's what you want. Half-flaccid may not get in or may pop out unexpectedly (both of which lead to the kind of intimate frustration we all like to avoid) or requires so much (poorly wielded) pressure that the operator loses control of the tool and damages the work area.
Finally, BSB alludes to the fact that there are no primary sex receptors in the rectum. That doesn't prevent some women from having intense orgasms from an ass fuck (I get tired of saying "anal penetration"). When that happens it is because receptors in the vagina are stimulated. She ascribes it to her g-spot (and that may be so) but likely she is getting off from the penis rubbing against the tendril of nerves that branch out from her clit and run back (among other places) along her rectum. It pays to do some slow exploration with angle of attack (not that you're attacking her ass), as well as rate and depth of penetration in order to maximize contact with the sensitive places next door.
There are some advanced pointers but they sometimes make folks go "eww" and this is long enough. I'll answer a few questions if anyone has any.
The pre-enema is a nice touch if the lady is anticipating anal sex. There is always a chance of coming out with a little something from last night's dinner
but for people with normal digestion (and reasonably high fiber in their diet) not much is stored in the rectum and spontaneous anal penetration is possible without any close encounters of the turd kind.And it is, of course the rectum (not the colon) that receives the penis. Otherwise we would get messy!
BSB is correct that the rectum often needs to adjust to an object moving from the "wrong" direction and there can be some temporary discomfort (cramping) associated. The real hurdle (to use a poor metaphor) is the anal sphincter. Thats the little ring of muscle surrounding the anal orifice and it's whole raison d'être is to keep that portal closed until stimulated by familiar pressure from inside.
Lube is essential. The pre-insertion penis should be well coated but it's equally important to get lube inside -- the anus can be very tight and essentially wipe off most of the lube on initial penetration, so work it in with your fingers beforehand, or let her do that. (It's fun!) And once you're in, before you begin any to-and-fro, pull your fat belly out of the way and squirt some lube at the point of penetration. Then slowly begin a well-lubricated series of short penetrations (beginning with a slight "out") to move the material inside. If things don't get really slippery do it again. She'll thank you for that.
Working lube in with the fingers serves the second purpose of getting the sphincter accustomed to opening from outside pressure. A rule of thumb
is that if you can work 2 fingers around, your dick can get in next. Slipping in as the fingers come out can be an easy segue but requires some finesse. Occasionally guys find that getting everything ready for the big trip leaves them less than dynamically erect. My advice in that case is to use something other than your dick. Anal penetration can require substantially more pressure than required to get in a wet vagina (which is 2-12/ lbs, incidentally). A good hard dick is a precise instrument and that's what you want. Half-flaccid may not get in or may pop out unexpectedly (both of which lead to the kind of intimate frustration we all like to avoid) or requires so much (poorly wielded) pressure that the operator loses control of the tool and damages the work area.
Finally, BSB alludes to the fact that there are no primary sex receptors in the rectum. That doesn't prevent some women from having intense orgasms from an ass fuck (I get tired of saying "anal penetration"). When that happens it is because receptors in the vagina are stimulated. She ascribes it to her g-spot (and that may be so) but likely she is getting off from the penis rubbing against the tendril of nerves that branch out from her clit and run back (among other places) along her rectum. It pays to do some slow exploration with angle of attack (not that you're attacking her ass), as well as rate and depth of penetration in order to maximize contact with the sensitive places next door.
There are some advanced pointers but they sometimes make folks go "eww" and this is long enough. I'll answer a few questions if anyone has any.
- Guest050619-1
- 04-24-2013, 12:21 PM
And after reading thru some of Brown Sugar's reviews, this is no doubt she's a lady who knows exactly what she's talking about. Good luck, Sylivia (looks like you've gotten some sound advice here.)
- whitechocolate
- 04-24-2013, 01:00 PM
Yes, BSB is a very experienced expert who cums heavy with anal penetration. You have two anal sphincters and the key is to massage them both for at least 10 minutes with fingers. The partner should take some lube and give you a good anal massage to loosen the sphincters by increasing blood supply like any massage. The partner then should do some very erotic DATO for another 5 minutes so 15 minutes of anal massaging should do the trick if you and the guy are well lubed. He will literally just slide in regardless of size.
- Guest112916
- 04-24-2013, 01:39 PM
Watch the movie "Top Secret" with Val Kilmer and or do a google search on the Anal Intruder.
On another note, be comfy with who you allow to burst that sphincter and enjoy. Make sure you remember to breathe.
On another note, be comfy with who you allow to burst that sphincter and enjoy. Make sure you remember to breathe.
- txcwby6
- 04-24-2013, 03:16 PM
Clean, clean, clean = enema.
LOTS of lube.
Start with a small dildo and take it from there to get yourself ready. I'm not a big fan of using fingers since one is never sufficient and two can sting.
If you have someone in mind make sure he has some experience. Do not pick an amateur, anyone that has an Alpha-dog mentality (likely to take charge and rip you open), or anyone from here.
Good luck and enjoy.
LOTS of lube.
Start with a small dildo and take it from there to get yourself ready. I'm not a big fan of using fingers since one is never sufficient and two can sting.
If you have someone in mind make sure he has some experience. Do not pick an amateur, anyone that has an Alpha-dog mentality (likely to take charge and rip you open), or anyone from here.
Good luck and enjoy.
- WyldeAndromeda
- 04-24-2013, 03:17 PM
Well beautiful lady...
First time, I got drunk, it wasn't planned and I did it cowgirl style so I was in control the whole time. No offense to the men out there, they can get a wee bit overly excited when it comes to Greek. For the virginity thing, I wouldn't recommend allowing a man in control.
The Orgasm is very intense though, heads up!!!!! Of course there are tons of ways to enjoy it, laying on your back and using a dildo at the same time so you have some awesome DP going on with help as well.
Go slow, lube it like crazy, slides even better! Just freaking enjoy it, that's what matters in the long run. You enjoying yourself with Greek. If you don't focus on how its going to hurt, it will never hurt. Just know if you can't find yourself adjusting. Move on to something else, not all areas of bedroom activities are for everyone. To many things to play with out there.
First time, I got drunk, it wasn't planned and I did it cowgirl style so I was in control the whole time. No offense to the men out there, they can get a wee bit overly excited when it comes to Greek. For the virginity thing, I wouldn't recommend allowing a man in control.
The Orgasm is very intense though, heads up!!!!! Of course there are tons of ways to enjoy it, laying on your back and using a dildo at the same time so you have some awesome DP going on with help as well.
Go slow, lube it like crazy, slides even better! Just freaking enjoy it, that's what matters in the long run. You enjoying yourself with Greek. If you don't focus on how its going to hurt, it will never hurt. Just know if you can't find yourself adjusting. Move on to something else, not all areas of bedroom activities are for everyone. To many things to play with out there.
- Guest070818-1
- 04-24-2013, 04:08 PM
Yes, BSB is a very experienced expert who cums heavy with anal penetration. You have two anal sphincters and the key is to massage them both for at least 10 minutes with fingers. The partner should take some lube and give you a good anal massage to loosen the sphincters by increasing blood supply like any massage. The partner then should do some very erotic DATO for another 5 minutes so 15 minutes of anal massaging should do the trick if you and the guy are well lubed. He will literally just slide in regardless of size. Originally Posted by whitechocolateOh you are bringing back memories *blush*
- skirtchaser79411
- 04-24-2013, 05:27 PM
LUBE AND LOTS OF IT
- fletch
- 04-25-2013, 09:59 AM
- Clean your asshole with an enema.yowser, i need a cig...
- Use LOTS of lube but I highly recommended silicone based lube like astrogel. KY jelly tends to create an uneasy warm or somewhat burning sensation in the ass. The sex shop also sells something called "Anal ease", I've heard that its pretty good! Spit works too...
- Do anal in doggie first, place your hand on the guys shaft and guide his head to you asshole and ssslllloooowwwwlllyyyyy guide it in. Don't let him thrust just yet. The tight ring at the beginning at the asshole needs to relax and I think its the most uncomfortable part of greek.
- Let him thrust slowly. If you feel pain, don't crawl all over the bed, just back that thing up on him and take it. Your colon will soon relax as he penetrates your asshole.
- If you feel good, take it up a notch and fuck faster. To me, anal sex stimulates my g-spot. It doesn't feel as great as if he were to be in my kitty, but it feels different and stimulates the back of your g spot.
- Also, always use proper protection. Hepatitis can be contracted through fecal matter...
Have fun and enjoy girl! Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby
