A Question for the Long Timers Part 2

Although the answers in my original post were good with respect to what they addressed, I had a slightly different question in mind. In particular, what I was interested in knowing was how the personal interaction has changed, e.g., are the meetings more casual; do your meetings now feel less businesslike and more personal; does seeing a provider seem less illicit than it did, and so on?

I did address those, except for the "does it seem less illicit." With respect to that, perhaps a bit to me. But, as with some of the other aspects, that may be more a result of a change to the market niche I patronize than a change in the overall environment. Street or massage parlors versus mid-range and up independents.

On the other hand, there is a change in the overall environment. Topless bars seem a bit more "mainstream" than they did thirty or forty years ago, although geographic location has something to do with that as well. Back then, they were more tucked away out of sight and places like Men's Club or Cabaret Royale or the Lodge would have been very unusual, at least where I lived at the time.

Part of the overall relaxation of sexuality. Back when I started, we still weren't that far beyond the Supreme Court knocking down the Connecticut law prohibiting the sale of birth control.

We're still a long way from legalization of P4P, though.

npita no question in my mind that the encounters are more personable, more friendly and I might add more enjoyable. As my first reply when I started at least in my feelings it was all about a nut. As time went on it was less that but in the 70s they called it the sexual revolution, yes sex was much more common then. As the 80s came along promiscuity became even more prevalent. The stripper clubs were now topless with G-Strings most everywhere. Late 80s escorts where now advertising in the Yellow pages and almost 100% unprotected sex. There really was little passion there. In the 90s aids came a long and penicillin could not cure it. Protected sex was almost overnight the norm. As we got into the 21 century protected FS stayed the same but with the president getting Blow Jobs in the Oval office it finally came to light that this became the norm and both men and women enjoyed DATY and BBBJ some more than FS me being one of those. I find that the intimacy of the 80s through today not that much different just larger menus for both P4P and in real life. Sex is really no longer a dirty subject that you can’t discuss. I find the providers today more open to discuss their opinions on activities that they like to receive and give. Is it more relaxed? Yes because you really don’t need to be looking over your shoulder constantly because nobody really cares that much. Have the laws changed no, but the enforcement in larger areas have more worse crimes to look at. I think in the next 50 years P4P will not be a crime, but it will take another 40 years or so for it to happen totally.

Everyone in the hobby develops favorites. When you have been with someone several times and feel comfortable with each other it adds to the experience.