ALSO IMHO, not that hygiene is the issue (I doubt it)....but El Paso is HOTTT, Like Dallas, so just because you showered 30 minutes prior to arriving, doesn't mean that you don't have sweaty balls. So just to be sure....shower again when you get to the in call....wash the ass and cock (taint too)AGAIN with soap and a washcloth. Also, make sure you are clean shaven on the big head and at least trimmed around the little head.
Originally Posted by alaine
Yeah I've noticed even with the AC on full blast in the car, leather seats still make me sweat enough to wet my shirt in the small of my back. I might just have to start showering/rinsing off at her place before the fun begins, during the warmers months anyway.
Also I always make sure the little guy and his two friends are hairless when I head out to see the ladies.
One hour. 10 minute to say hi. 15-20 minutes to DATY. 6 minutes sex with you. 10 minutes to recover. I don't think I know any provider who will offer round two with 15 minutes left. Maybe you should mention it in your emails so she is prepared to rush through the DATY.
Originally Posted by KatieKatieNYC
Thing is I saw a provider recently that I'd seen before, and we pretty much stuck to your scedule and I was still able to get in a second pop without running over. It doesn't take me 10 mins to recover, unless I've been spanking it all week like a 14year old who just discovered porn. 15 mins left seems like ample time for round 2
And you mentioned comfort. How comfortable are you if she serves chilled champagne, provides freshly sliced fruit, hot bod, great skills, but all thats on your mind is a 2nd pop? All the basic A qualities are there, but that MSOG idea is like a monkey on your back. Get it off. It's my goal to give A+ affairs, and only thorough communication makes that happen.
Originally Posted by Eva Damita
MSOG isn't the monkey on my back, the monkey on my back is the idea that I didn't get my money's worth. I'd be totally fine if I didn't get a second chance to pop, so long as she didn't want to scoot me out the door after 35mins. The comfort thing comes in when I go to flush the cover and clean off my gentleman's sausage in the span of 30 seconds and she's already dressed again sitting at the foot of the bed with an expectant expression, like I should say "thanks for the chance to poke you, gotta run." All the expensive champagne and sliced fruit in the world wouldn't make me feel comfortable in a situation like that.
They may be what they call "selective MSOG." I think if you are flushing the cover then proceeding to take another shower that's a clear indication you are finished. Even if you didn't shower and just wiped yourself off genitalia wise, some providers who don't do cim or swallow might not want to do BBBJ after you have came due to the taste.
I feel like if I book an hour as long as I'm respectful of her time and don't go over at the 59 minute mark I'm done. But since I know that's not enough time for me Id book slightly more if I was you. Book a half hour more or 90 minutes and you can lick all you want. Say what you want especially if its msog.
That shower you take after the appointment, is that all within the span of your hour, or do you use her time for that? So you take 3 showers? And lord forbid if you aren't sure you smell good, your probably musty as hell I bet. Get a brillo or scour pad and you'll be straight.
If she needs lube she's not enthused, tell her to reach for it and keep it pushing. If you like daty just do what you want....if your not motivated to do it and place time limits on it don't do it. Every curve of your tongue and trick you do countlesss others do as well. Some are sensitive, some don't come at all,...others are so jaded and unsensitive nothing you will do will cause it. Some can act out an orgasm well. Its not hard, just ask for what u want.
Originally Posted by gimme_that
I'd understand if they were selective MSOG, that's fine. Just like some women claim to be selective DATY. Usually I don't hop in the shower after the first pop, I just take off the cover and go flush it then wipe off junior with TP/wipes, taking care not to have any hangers on once I'm done cleaning. In the 30 to 45 seconds I do this is when the lady has thrown her clothes on and is waiting for me to say my goodbyes.
I'd love to book longer sessions, hell I'd book overnights if the pocketbook would allow.
As I said earlier, I almost never shower after the appointment, at least not a her place. I do shower directly before leaving my house headed to her place, and on a few occasions I have rinsed off at the lady's incall because I headed over right after work. I do count that 5min shower as on the clock, I'd have no problem if that was part of my hour there. As far as the smell thing, leather seat + 15min car ride = well I'm sure you can guess there's gona be some perspiration.
I could argue the merits of lube, and the woman not being wet but that's a topic that merits it's own thread entirely. Likewise with the orgasm thing.
I have NEVER DATY and with the exception of a few unanticipated attacks I was NON-GFE. No DATY & NO KISSING!
Interesting thing is 90% of my sessions went over... way over in a lot of cases! 
Originally Posted by Still Looking
Intredasting, though no DATY is almost a deal breaker as it's an essential part of the experience for me. To each their own though.
Women do not O. I do not care how long one chews the kitty it just don't happen. Women orgasming is an urban myth.
Originally Posted by pyramider
Even when you tickle the taint? What has this world come to?!
So far what I've learned is speak up about what I want, an hour isn't enough time for the activities I like, I should probably ask to shower when I get to the incall, and women don't actually orgasm.
More input is always appreciated.
just kidding.....but still....if you're cleaning up with only 15 mins left to go, maybe you should be more specific when you book your time.
