I realize no one likes put downs, and if we all pitched a fit every time a client or provider offended us, this board would be cluttered with nothing but griping.
But, I now have two poor reviews. One was a big surprise, the last from ***** 'Gnostalgia' has particular sting.
First, I would like to point out that his belly was so big it was quite hard for him to penetrate. I think it's likely he was embarrassed and that led to some of this situation.
I spent nearly two hours rather than one with this gentleman, and when I finally suggested mutual masturbation he did not want to. After more than an hour, he got up and got dressed, saying it wasn't going to work. He is in his late 70's, so I understood.
After I dressed I sat and visited with him for another half an hour. The next day he called (he called me a LOT, despite my asking him to clear it first via text) to tell me that he wanted me to 'make it right' by giving him a one hour session for $100. He said if I didn't agree he would post a terrible review. It felt a bit like blackmail, but I agreed, and said I would contact him the next time I held an incall.
Although in his review he says I refused mutual masturbation, it was quite the opposite. In his phone call and also at his home he told me he didn't like condoms (non negotiable) and he didn't pay to have me come over so he could 'do it himself'. I understand that, but he wouldn't let me be on top and his belly didn't allow him close enough to make him happy.
In addition to this, he didn't pay me a CENT for those two hours, I realized when I got to the store that at some point he had gotten into my purse and removed the 200 he HAD given me.
Of course, as I've noticed is always the case for myself and other's, some clients, most who have never met me but claim they have, are eager to jump on the bandwagon with additional put downs.
Am I a spinner? 20 years old? Nope. Here is an unposed or edited photo taken during a recent shoot. I'm hardly a BBW, or I would advertise that. I am open that I'm curvy. So! Here ya go . . .
Originally Posted by Kathryn
Aside from you not getting your donation which is bullshit, basically it was your choice to give him the extra hour, and in 6 months this really won't matter in the grand sheme of things... All he is going to do is start a new handle and move on in life. However calling his real name out isn't going to win your brownie points since its like half ass outing a person on the board.
Lesson Learned Here.... Have An Age Limit and Don't Leave Your Purse Where They Can Take Sheet Out.
I feel you are more upset with yourself over you wasting your time and not getting any paid. Mostly when we are upset it's for our own actions and not the actions of others. We make ourselves upset, it's a choice we make.
On further looking at his reviews...
You are his only No review, and it's Hell No.. When all his other reviews are yes... Just saying, maybe it's warranted. I've had a shitty attitude before and it effected my life. Maybe it's time for you to let go and say fuck it, not everyone is there for a fight. Maybe it's time to enjoy life and let the good times roll ms lady.
Negative outlooks and bashing other people are kinda pointless and only hurt the person carrying the negative sheet. A provider can't connect completely with everyone that is impossible, however we can look for the positive in our gentlemen and sessions, find that thread that we can connect with and enjoy ourselves in our expierences together.
Sensuality of each other's touch, how sweet the person is to us, how kind and special they are, how considerate, if the man is having problems getting it up, that's okay, take things slow and see what really helps get his motor running, what does he like, what things make his man stand at attention and spit at you?
Casting stones is never good, I've been there, done that, got the gold medal for hard knock life.. Shrugs.... however building up the gents we see with praise, attention and affection goes way farther. It's a compliment that they choose you out of all the ladies they could of picked. They didn't have to call you... Or pay you.
Be honest if your a bit heavier who cares, there are men who like that to, be proud of yourself. Being a companion is about pure carnal adult pleasure that we can't get anywhere else.
I learned while I was away that, life is short, enjoy the pleasures while you can cause they will all eventually end. Being upset serves no purposes, why not just say sorry I had a shitty attitude, please forgive me can we try again on a clean slate. Smoke a fat something, drink some Single malt scotch and say who gives a damn and let go to pleasure, to sensuality, to erotism and dive into a world of awakening sensuous touch no matter what part of life it's in.
Let go of what you think you know and find joy in human touch again, it's fucking erotic. For both sides of the fence. Maybe it's time to start enjoying the work and seeing it for what it is,ma damn great place to get spoiled by men who are going to bother with emotional bullshit or argue about taking the trash out. It's a beautiful thing to be able to enjoy for the sake of enjoyment.
Here are some great things about a good Hobbiest.
1. They pay us for our time, then leave until they want to see us again, if the do that works even better
2. They actually take the time to research us and find out about us, kinda like cute little internet stalkers who want to bang us... ����
3. They are typically very sweet and more nervous than we are.. How cute, it's adorable
4. They just want affection, we all want affection, okay that works, common interest found there
5. No two men or woman are the same, keeps things quite interesting on our toes
6. It's a fucking compliment that they pay us their hard earned money, period.
7. They are no strings attached, better yes so are we. Hell yeah
8. Strange can be a lot of fun
9. Sometimes we got to help them out of their shell, just a little extra effort, it can breed a expierences full of laughter and fun. Fun is good!!!
10. If they adore us enough, they post positive things about us and make other people wants to see us, how sweet is that. They support us when we are good to them.
Let's say that again, they support us when we are GOOD TO THEM. maybe it's time for a different viewpoint that being the victim. You are not a victim, your just damaged like the rest of us in this world and that's okay. We are all fucked up searching for what makes us happy in life. We all have different paths to get there. However how we treat people along the way, how we make them feel, well that lasts forever. Speaking from a voice of expierence.
Maybe if providers did appreciate our hobbiest more things would change a bit, it does work both ways.
Okay shutting up, I have to get to the gym and work.
Blessings to everyone, have a great Tuesday. Oops Wednesday .. No I didn't proof read this.. Lol