I think I finally understand what tantric sex is getting at.
I had a fabulous experience with a playmate recently. My neck has patches of nerves that are more sensitive and intense then any of the typical erogenous zones - it takes some technique but done right, it's oh so good.
The first partner induced orgasm I ever had was at 14, with someone sensually taking their time to explore my neck. I never happened again until recently. Though I remembered the initial experience fondly, the details of the sensation were lost.
It literally felt like a disembodied, not really emanating from anywhere specific the way a typical orgasm does, just this strange buzzing of sensation in the body and brain.
Part of the fun of BDSM is actually chasing that sort of unique experience of body chemicals gone wild. Curious if anyone else has had something similar happen? People have all kinds of unusual erogenous zones.