Rei.M is Hobart's ATF and a thief

http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=260087

I am posting this in the San Antonio and the Austin sections because she plays in both areas and parts in between.

First off, I'd like to say it is very tough for me to write this.
I was privileged enough to meet Rei when she first decided to join Eccie and saw her many times since.

In all the time I'd seen Rei I hadn't had many issues. Schedules have always been a problem but we worked around them. She would contact me more often when she was low on cash. I was ok with her reaching out to me as it would give me a chance to see her again.
There were times our schedules didn't work out so she would ask me to send money to her. Never had an issue with that because when we were finally able to get together, I would get my end met.

Recently Rei reached out to me. I have been extremely busy so I told her I may not be able to see her any time soon. She asked me to send her some cash. I did. After that she would contact me to see when we could get together. I was still quite busy so she asked again for more cash.
I was busy but found a few open spots in my schedule and asked if we could meet up. Each time I suggested was not good for her.
I suggested other times and they didn't seem to work.
At one point Rei stopped texting back. All communication was on my part. At one point I pointed out she wasn't replying and she got very mad.
She finally told me she was not going to honor her end of this final deal. She was not going to see me or return the money I sent her.

I have been going back and forth trying to decide if I should post this alert. I have received questions from Gentz here on this site so I think people want to know and should be aware. I'm trying to Exchange this Information with the Escorts and Clients on this board.

Rei was an awesome Gal IMHO. I am not sure why she decided to do this to me after all the time we saw each other.
If anyone sees her I would just suggest not sending money in advance and maybe everything will be okay.

Rei was my ATF and 5/5 Hobart-Jalapeños-On-A-Steek so I am looking for my next ATF.
I welcome all you Galz that would like to be Hobart's new ATF

a girl asking for cash without services rendered is already a warning sign. never do that.

a girl asking for cash without services rendered is already a warning sign. never do that. Originally Posted by goobersnotch

Yet too many vets of the hobby violate this cardinal rule.

Sorry to hear what happened to you, Hobart.

double post

Sorry you got fucked instead of her, but Good ON YA for posting the alert. Maybe it'll get her attention and things will be made right, but either way, things like this SHOULD be posted, if for no other reason than to teach (or attempt to teach) newbies a lesson.
It's even more significant to note YOU ARE NOT A NEWBIE.. it can happen to the best of hobbyists. Thanks for posting

How is that chick on the board for almost two years and still awaiting age verification? That alone tells me she don't have her shit together and less of a reason to trust her

How is that chick on the board for almost two years and still awaiting age verification? Originally Posted by EAfan4ever

Age verification for all providers is a relatively recent development.

ztonk
AustinModStaff

yeah, this is a crappy lesson to learn. years ago I had a girl pull this one off on me. the easiest way to never see your atf again is advancing them money

i think its easy once a guy gets comfortable with a girl to go above and beyond for them. but here in hobbyland remember we have what they want, once they got it from us, they dont give a shit.

Mr Hobart
Sorry you advanced money.
As we all know, that's the surest way NOT to see a provider ever again.
I've done it, same think happened.
Thanks for the Alert, and reminding all of us to think with the big head.

Thank you Gentz for all the comments.
I've known about the cardinal rule but I guess I was a dumdazz and chose not to follow it.
I hope others learn from my mistake.

Just a little update. I reached out to Rei to give her a chance to give her side of the story. I don't believe she wants to but told me I was being a dikchead when I was trying to set up the date I had prepaid for. I've been told that my texts sometimes give off a PO'd feeling to them. I explained I wasn't trying to be a dikchead at the time and may have been a misunderstanding.
She said she hopes it gets better for us. So who knows. My next review may be Rei and myself kissing and making up?
Thank you all

Hey Hobart, I'm sorry to hear that story Bro. I can relate. I know exactly how you were feeling when you wrote this thread. It's like somebody is carving your guts out with a dull knife. You hate writing what you did but damn, you don't want to see your fellow mongers get screwed over either. It's like what do you do? It's a shame this kind of thing happens and forces you into doing this. Come on people, do the right thing and threads like this will not have to be posted.

"Alerts - Austin
Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material."

Hobart and Rei are quarreling?
How does it qualify as an alert?
How could their issue endanger the safety...?

No, not a Rei WK, never seen her and there are two girls here that owe me visits.
I haven't bothered posting because the only issue is me being stupid enough to pay in advance.
Yes, they are thieves if I never get my visits - but there isn't a threat to member's safety so there's no reason to post about it - especially not in the Alerts forum.

Every guy here knows their making a risky business decisions when they "help" a girl.
There have been countless threads like this before and they don't prevent us from letting our little heads overrule our big heads.

We all know ahead of time that the outcome of such things won't always go as we desire.
This isn't even limited to the hobby - RW loans don't always have the desired outcome either.

"Alerts - Austin
Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material."

Hobart and Rei are quarreling?
How does it qualify as an alert?
How could their issue endanger the safety...?

No, not a Rei WK, never seen her and there are two girls here that owe me visits.
I haven't bothered posting because the only issue is me being stupid enough to pay in advance.
Yes, they are thieves if I never get my visits - but there isn't a threat to member's safety so there's no reason to post about it - especially not in the Alerts forum.

Every guy here knows their making a risky business decisions when they "help" a girl.
There have been countless threads like this before and they don't prevent us from letting our little heads overrule our big heads.

We all know ahead of time that the outcome of such things won't always go as we desire.
This isn't even limited to the hobby - RW loans don't always have the desired outcome either. Originally Posted by OralPassion

It was meant more of a headz up to those who see her.
I would've made note not to visit the 2 Galz you haven't mentioned.
I apologize for taking your time.

...I apologize for taking your time.
Originally Posted by Hobart420

Sir, no apology needed at all.
Just the opposite, thank you for all your posts and great reviews.
I'm simply saying this kind of thing isn't an alert.
It's informative and useful but just not a safety issue.
I sincerely thank you for all your contributions and look forward to more!