Someone asked about Hollywood on another forum (where she was banned). I posted that she was still in business and tried to link to her ad here. Unfortunately, they had a word filter for this site. Ridiculous. I am so glad this place was created.
I know which one you are talking about. I like the chat feature there. A lot of ladies stop bye and say hi. Can't wait till this site has that feature up and running. All good things are worth the wait.
In the suggestion forum here, I posted a free chat software that integrates nicely with the forum database (meaning it uses it to validate members so that only members can participate). It ain't perfect, but it is free, relatively painless to install, and has worked well on the site I administer.
The best solution would be a true IRC server but that would be a bit of an unnecessary expense. A downside to chat with a new site is that oftentimes all the conversations migrate over there and you could see a drop in postings to the forums.