Years ago I was coming out the door of 4240 Blue Ridge Blvd. There was an old woman slowly pushing a walker and struggling to get through the automatic door. I pushed the button for her and watched her exit. As she was walking I could see that she was walking toward a group of people who I surmised (correctly) was her family. This woman was struggling while her family was standing, smoking and joking! I grabbed her walker, grabbed her hand and tucked her elbow into the inside of my left arm and proceeded to escort her to the car! Her family lept into action!! Made it to the back door, helped her into the car. On parting I whispered to her something like “you think these people will do a better job of taking care of their mother next time?”. She gave me a mischievous smile and that was it!
Some years later, standing in the WalMart checkout. There was another older woman checking out. She realized she didn’t have the cash. The cashier had that look! I’m thinking “fuck that”! Walked up to the cashier, gave her my debit card to cover the rest. There was some change, told the cashier to give it to the woman! The woman thanked me profusely and went on her way!!
I’ve never even told my family those stories!