Have you been in situations before you want to meet up with a provider (especially who are greatly reviewed) ask for atleast a minimum of 2 to 3 references of other Independent providers and you have none.
yeah i understand why ladies do this but i have had bad luck with providers not answering calls for referance from other providers. i think im bowing out of the hobby this hasnt cheered me up the way i had hopped more like depressed me more.
A great lady with no drama associated with her will have other ways to screen you that would put you and her at ease. You not having references should not stop you from having a great time.
Maybe the problem is making this a hobby. Meeting ladies in this fashion is not a sport.