Every time someone brings up these ridiculous statistics I just have to laugh.
I've been steady providing for about a year. Before that I had a stint in another state. Neither times was I forced to do anything. I was asked the first time and agreed. The first time I tried this, I literally felt like a hooker, except for the fact that I never walked any boulevards.
Fast forward to now.. I don't feel like a hooker now. There isn't a man involved in me providing, hasn't been and won't be, ever. My choice to provide stems from the fact that my day job would have paid for only my rent and my children's daycare. THATS why I started providing. I can make as much in a day as I used to make in a week. Providing has offered me a lot of financial and time freedoms. I can drop off my children and pick them up whenever they need. I have time now to take classes for my real world career. I can pay my bills on time for once! AND have money left over to fund my dreams.
That's why I provide. And many, many other ladies are in the same boat as me. There are also many others that do this solely because they like the money. I have a girl friend who travels the US and doesn't have any career goals, just likes that she can afford Tom Ford, Gucci, etc. That's her motivation. And to each their own.
But don't come on this board spewing ridiculousness about how we are forced into this. My decision was a conscious, thought out process. And one that I don't regret. The government and moral activists will fill your head with crazy statistics because they want you to believe that sex is a disgusting, morally wrong thing that you should only partake in with your spouse. Well if wives would actually start loving their men and doing what it takes to satisfy them, I wouldn't be in business.
Besides, you should never do anything you're good at for free.
